Hi! Happy Saturday.

I'm a submissive guy looking for somebody to get to know and have some ongoing, friendly, sexy fun with. If you're geographically near to me, maybe it could even be more!

It's been a minute since I wrote one of these ads, and I always wind up making them longer than I set out to, so saddle up partner!

I'm bi-curious/queer-ish, so if you're trans or non-binary I dig you too :)

What's in the box:

• soft spoken, softer hair
• gainfully employed at the internet, making ones and zeros do things they never thought they could do
• affectionate, cute as all get-out
• hobbyist musician
• sense of humor is anywhere between dry, deadpan, absurd, and sassy
• mega perv (you were gonna find that out anyhow)
• pie enthusiast
• awkward as hell but generally comfortable in my own skin
• HWP, functional penis

For the right person I am pliable and slutty and oh so obedient. I love being controlled and objectified. I want somebody who is excited to experience my vulnerability (and take advantage of it).

Instead of specific kinks, let's talk tonality and spirit. I am into a domination style that is overall based on positive reinforcement. You can torture me, deny me, and make me do things I don't like doing, but I'm gonna need it to come from a place of "you're my prized possession for me to shape, to test, and to enjoy," not "you're a worthless, subhuman slave." Within the bounds of that, I'm down to explore and get into all sorts of stuff with you!

This is not gonna be exhaustive (how could it be?), but if the following items are must-haves for you, then we're not a good fit:

• cuckold (been cheated on--feels bad, man)
• anything illegal
• anything involving anyone other than you and me (without prior discussion/consent between everyone)
• scat, blood
• CBT beyond anything very minor
• lasting or permanent bodily marking/harm
• chastity (technically this is a soft limit, but yeah, if it's a must-have let's not have it be a point of contention)
• "service" submission (giving/receiving acts of service is more of a love language for me, not a kink)

I have oodles of limits when it comes to levels of control, denial, pain, etc, sure, but those are case-by-case things that need to be negotiated and renegotiated as things progress. This shit takes time as trust and familiarity develops! I want to give you control, but I'm not giving you the same level of control over me on day 1 as I would on day 100, ya dig?

I wanna get to know you and learn what makes you tick. I also want to shoot the shit about stuff and generally have chemistry and get along well.

Ping me to talk, and we can exchange pics to see if there's mutual "aw hell yeah look at this cutie" feelings :)