Two people in love. She's given him her heart, gladly and gratefully, and he caretakes it as well as he does the rest of her. She admires him, adores him. She has so much love to offer.

So she gives it to him. She's devoted, so she devotes her life to his happiness. She follows his direction, and he is clear in his communication and quick in his forgiveness and correction of her mistakes. She looks to him for guidance and wisdom, and he helps her to understand his perspective and to express her own. She cares for him, his health and his home. She serves him, freely and wholly. She worships him with her heart and her body and her self. She loves him so much that everything else is details.

He gives her even more. He's strong without being stubborn, consistent without being capricious, disciplined without being domineering. He has the foresight to make plans for them and the drive to make those plans a reality. He gives her more than she's asked for in a life of needing the answer that was him all along. He instructs and inculcates her, debases and empowers her, builds her up and holds her down, makes a place for her and puts her in it. Their love, like the rest of their relationship, is asymmetric. She belongs to him, and he takes care of what's his.

They live this way because of who they are, irrespective of the fact that it's a fantasy for others. It doesn't feel like a kink or a taboo or a role to be left in the bedroom. It's practical, sensible, sustainable. Honest. Their normal.

Out of necessity, they begin at a distance, speaking online and on the phone. They go as slow as they need – that this is a marathon doesn't change the destination. He knows how to get them there.

Tl;dr: Insightful man seeks smart, self-aware woman for realistic life-long TPE relationship. Please inquire via PM for so, so many more details.