About me
I'm a 32, very kinky Arab man living in Dubai. I'm well educated with a good head on my shoulders. Career-wise I'm quite ambitious. I work hard and love what I do. I have been described by others as rational, caring, wise, creative, funny and a hopeless romantic. But I'll let you be the judge of that. I value humor a lot, especially in a healthy relationship.
I think of myself as a homebody; I enjoy relaxing at home with my cats, reading, designing, gaming, watching history documentaries or simply bantering with friends over drinks.
I have a deep-seated thirst for knowledge. I enjoy learning and discovering about the world we live in. Whether it be science, human nature, history or why cats are always adamant on presenting their assholes to us.
Looks
I'm 167cm, slim, have a trimmed bear, and quite well hung.
SFW Can share a non-censored one in private.
Kinks
I enjoy being dominant and LOVE control. It's my ultimate kink, my aphrodisiac. Not just sexually, but in day to day life as well. From simple orders to TPE.
Above all I believe there should be a healthy mixture of kinks and intimacy in such dynamics. One moment I can be using you as a worthless cum rag, the next whispering sweet nothings while we cuddle.
Kinks with a mental aspect I find to be more interesting that others. Some of what I enjoy are:
- Tasks and assignments. Not necessary sexual in nature.
- Outfit & looks control
- Anal
- Rough sex (Choking, slapping, hair pulling, etc)
- Watersports
- Domestic servitude/ "Traditional" roles.
- Humiliation & degradation. Race play is a subset of that kink that I find hot.
- Cuckqueans and MFF threesomes
- Cuckold/ Hotwife couples. I like to be the bull, not the cuckold. I'm possessive, so I don't share my woman with other men.
- Non-con
- Orgasm control
- Cock worship
- Some role playing occasionally.
My philosophy as a Dom
I believe a good leader should have his woman's best interest at heart first and foremost. Regardless of what we enjoy, depraved or otherwise, it is my job to guide you into the rabbit hole, and make sure you come out of the other end just fine.
It's my responsibility not only to protect and care, but also to guide my woman's growth. As a human being first, and owned submissive second.
I put a lot of emphasis on proper communication. Honest communication the foundation to a good relationship. It also allows me to understand your psyche and personality deeper. I find a lot of enjoyment in exploring and understanding someone's inner workings, finding what makes them tick, and what buttons to push.
Approach
I like to think my approach is part structured, part organic. Through ongoing conversation, play, tasks, and assignments can a submissive improve and be shaped to her Man's liking. The experience should be fun and positive, creative and a learning experience.
I think thoroughly about how to break and mold my sub, what behaviors need changing and skills need improving; Whether it be her discipline, submissive mentality, how she looks, her health, or a plethora of other areas.
When I take on a sub, I invest a lot of time and effort in her. Which is part of the reason why I'm picky. Not only do I have to like her, but she has to be as genuine and interested as I am. I avoid people looking for quick, superficial fun.
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