Good day!

I'm into psychological sexual play. I like to dominate, play mind games, and so forth. This is ENTIRELY FANTASY for me. The interplay of tension that it creates, and then the breaking of that tension, building it up again, etc., is sexy. But it has nothing to do with my real values, at all, which is sort of the point.

Role play I enjoy includes being a manipulative, exploitative therapist or authority figure. I also enjoy taboo role play, but not exclusively.

Open to women and men, including trans.

I would want to begin by getting to know each other a little bit as people, so that some basic level of trust can be established. While I'm not seeking a serious relationship, I'm also not looking to just dive into play without any bonding whatsoever. I'm cautious about this. It might take me more than one conversation to warm up, just as it might for you! There is no judgement in discovering that we have no play chemistry. But meeting new people is how to find out.

Please don't respond if you're in a relationship and your partner doesn't know about you pursuing outside gratification. No judgement, I just choose not to be involved in that.

I am 51, but look younger (no, seriously, I am told this constantly). I am on the slender side, but in the interest of full disclosure, do have a little bit of a dad belly (I'm not an actual dad, though). I am clean-shaven, and sport a buzz cut. I am single, live alone, and if we decide to meet IP I can host. I live in the Lakeview neighborhood in Chicago. I am open to purely online play with distant partners, though. Fun is fun!

I'm both a bit of a nerd and a mild intellectual. I like tabletop games (RPGs and board games), and both genre and foreign/art film. I'm a reader. Politically, super liberal.

If you think you might want to talk, send me a message! I like getting to know new people, so no pressure even if you're not sure what you want.