Hello there. As the title states, I'm an attractive, educated, NYC-based Dom.

I’m actively seeking opportunities to create or co-create some really fascinating / erotic / meaningful experiences with new people. I'm also interested in exploring the more severe parts of my personality in a consensual (or consensually non-consensual) way.

I am looking for a sub that is physically attractive (feminine-leaning) and educated (formally or informally). I'm open-minded with regard to age or background, but have high standards. I'm especially drawn to the intellectual, emotional, philosophical facets of BDSM (in addition to the sensuous) -- in particular, I am enamored with the idea of complete control over a sub's "user experience" and the qualitatively different type of relationships that are possible when we explore alternative power dynamics. This element of play is highly important to me, so I need someone who can articulate their feedback in a clear, intelligent manner: you'd be as much aware of what's intellectually and emotionally stimulating for you in addition to what is making you extra dripping wet. Happy to exchange pics early on to check physical chemistry!

It's important to me that my impact on someone carries positive growth in addition to kinky mindfuckery and submissive sexytimes. As a result, any subs I may have may find themselves engaging in acts of public service or self-improvement in addition to cultivating themselves into ever more perfect vessels for my cum.

I don't have a lot of time to spare, but you'll find that I act decisively and efficiently. I'm a deft learner and a clear communicator. I really want to respect your time (but I'll need your honest communication to do that).

I work in the social impact / nonprofit space. It’s probably important that you see value in making the world a better place. I’m not judge-y, but I do think values alignment will be helpful.

Note: I am polyamorous. This play doesn’t mean you’d be a part of our other relationships (unless there’s that kind of chemistry), but I want to be upfront that I/we will almost certainly be seeing and playing amongst ourselves and with others. My partner is a 26/f switch -- we are excited to team up on a lucky someone. She is an intelligent, gorgeous force of nature.

As it happens I'm also looking for folks to join in on a kinky roleplaying experience I've been planning. Please see my post history for more information on that!

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Lastly, here are my bdsmtest.org results:

99% Owner

99% Non-monogamist

98% Rigger

86% Primal (Hunter)

76% Voyeur

76% Experimentalist

75% Vanilla

74% Daddy/Mommy

69% Master/Mistress

59% Degrader

59% Sadist

46% Ageplayer

46% Exhibitionist

45% Dominant

43% Boy/Girl

41% Submissive

40% Brat

38% Brat tamer

31% Slave

31% Switch

26% Primal (Prey)

25% Pet

14% Rope bunny

5% Masochist

2% Degradee