BDSM Test for the curious.

What to say? I could say so many things. I've had detailed, thorough posts, and I've also shared briefer ones, but still haven't landed a catch. Perhaps I'm trying in the wrong place, but my experience on BDSM Personal sites thus far has been underwhelming.

First, a little bit about me.

Physical

I'm 6'1" with dark brown, curly hair. Sadly, I've been balding since my early 20s, so the top of my head is conspicuously less hairy. That being said, I would definitely argue that I remain an attractive specimen of a male. I have a broad build that, when combined with my height, actually carries my weight well. That being said, I do need to lose more than just a few pounds.

My best feature? Easily my eyes. They are regularly complimented and I think they're a perfect reflection of who I am. Due to my height and build, I'm generally strong, and I have a deeper voice that is sonorous in nature. I've been able to turn women on just by talking to them.

Mental

I'm a psychology major and I work with people in the human services sector, so I routinely see and work with people who have need of my insights, my ability to quickly learn about something, and pass along that information in the best way possible to the people I help so that they can be their best selves.

I'm a reformed pessimist, with enough hope to generally stay optimistic, even when life isn't going well.

Further, I am exploring hypnosis and other devices, the idea of mental change is by far one of my greatest kinks. Soften up a tomboy into someone girly; take someone down a peg or two from their high horse; etc... but all of it centers back to my core personality which can be, at times, capricious and cruel, but it also caring and devoted.

Marriage

My wife is aware of my search and is fine with it. I wouldn't say it's an open relationship entirely. She has far less desire to get certain needs elsewhere. However, I personally struggle with the thought of having her submit to my desires, and, as my wife, she maintains an equal position in my life, a situation which I would not like to interrupt. As such, here I am looking for a sub.

Sub

I'm not looking for just any sub. I'm looking for the right one. My ideal submissive would be someone who could, over time, see themselves giving over complete control of their lives to me. I want someone that I can tell her what to do and expect that loyalty 24/7.

Preferably I seek a smaller, more petite sort of sub, so that I can maximize the use of my fair strength in any potential play. Initially this would be online, but for someone in the same area as me, it would gradually evolve into something more tangible.

Ages are 20 - 40 with 25 - 35 being the most ideal target range.

If you're interested, please send me a PM and tell me a bit about yourself and why you should be my sub. If there's one thing I can't abide, it's a lazy sub. Show me that you're willing to make the effort to do what needs to be done, rather than assuming that I'll do everything for you.

At the moment you would most certainly need to support yourself, but I will be more than willing to change that arrangement when the opportunity presents itself.

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If you happen to send me pics, I'll likely send some back. Show me real interest and you'll have my attention.

Twirling Thoughts is my author pseudonym and you can find stories that might reveal parts of me if you're interested.