I’m a 25 years old Dom from Europe. I’m looking for something online, at least at the beginning, but I highly prefer someone from Europe as it would make communication easier.

English is not my first language and sometimes I feel I’m not fluent enough to express myself as I would really like. I have been struggling to find out what I’m really looking for and doubting about if I should post here or not because, as a Dom, I have two different sides. I like taking care of my sub, give her the attention and support she needs, but I also have a more sadistic side.

When I’m thinking in a little girl I think in someone to give my attention, affect and love. Someone who might need me to provide certain comfort, security and discipline in her life. I imagine a cute girl who needs my cuddles. While I enjoy with that, I'm also interested in more kinky aspects of a Dom/sub relationship so more than a little girl to take care of, I want a little slut who I can equally cherish and humiliate.

I’m looking for a sub/little who is willing to communicate. We need to be sincere and share how we feel and where we want to go. I’m not omniscient, I don’t know what’s in your head if you don’t tell me. Each person is different and I want to take the time to learn about you and understand your needs. At the same time I need someone that helps me to manage this relationship. Building a relationship might need some time until we are both comfortable, I need someone who stays on my side. I don’t want to push you beyond your limits, make you feel uncomfortable or hurt you, and to avoid all that I need your feedback. I want someone with who I can discuss as adults, that doesn’t expect me to have all the answers but is willing to talk and find the best solution together.

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What I want in a little?

I like that connection between a little and her Daddy. I want to give her love, attention and affection. I want to cherish her and see how she corresponds me and enjoys with my attention and appraisal. I want to feel she enjoys the time we spend together.

We could watch cartoons together, play videogames or maybe I could give her things to draw or color. I would like to have someone to send good night and good morning messages and also someone I can give some discipline, for example choosing her outfit, setting bedtimes or ensure she does her homework or chores.

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What I want in a sub?

I would say as a Dom I’m more of the caring type, but I can also be mean. Most of all it depends on how the relationship evolves. I like giving attention to my sub, make her feel attended and valued. I like praising her, but I also have a more sadistic side which needs to be satisfied, in that aspect, I enjoy making suffer the sub a bit, for instance via spanking, humiliation or denying her to orgasm.

My main interest is domination itself, I want to take control of the sub, make her mine. I want to be her reference, give a purpose to her submission. I want to show her the path to follow with firm hand and discipline while she expects to be praised for being a good sub.

I enjoy with guided masturbation, taking full control of the sub and tell her how to use her body, make her beg to orgasm and keeping her wondering if she would be finally allowed to cum or not. Besides that, I also like humiliation, degradation/misogyny, bondage, spanking.

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At least I want to have an initial chat and agree on the basic terms of the relationship. First and foremost, we are persons and I will treat you as such. Then, after discussing our interests and find common points we might decide to give this a try or not and start with the Daddy/little, Dom/sub dynamic.