Hiya! I'm new to the area and interested in meeting a kind, liberal, ambitious man for cute dates and (possible) sexy times.... and seeing where that takes us, yeah? I'd like to meet somebody I can grow with.

I'm queer and poly and lean toward ethical non-monogamy, so ideally you'd be flexible towards that. I love art museums, dive bars, indie movie theatres, punk shows, and any media that makes me step back and reassess the world around me. (I listen to a LOT of therapy and sexual health podcasts, and write a LOT of romance fiction, so that's pretty much all you need to know about me).

I'm 23 years old, tough, tender, and tiny. In all relationships, I'm devoted. Sharp as a whip. I'm curvy, petite in the chest and thick in the booty (where it counts, let's be real), short hair, tattooed, vaguely goth. Think Lena Dunham but 10x cuter and 1000x sweeter. In bed, I have heavily submissive leanings and would love to find a dude with dominant/Dom leanings. I love affectionate, firm, uplifting, consensual cruelty. That said, curiosity and communication skills are all you need to pique my interest.

I will, of course, send you a photo straight away if I'm interested!

I'm into: patience, enthusiastic consent, emotional vulnerability, compassion, open-mindedness, physical displays of affection, being appreciated beyond my body, learning new things, trying new things, frank yet sensitive communication, feeling special, and being special. I also love The Office more than anything in this world.

You: 25-35, residing in the Raleigh area and preferably able to host. You're able to express yourself emotionally and be vulnerable; you seek this in others. You live your life with compassion, care, and positivity. You're able to express yourself emotionally and be vulnerable; you seek this in others. You have an intuition about people, can catch on to what they're hiding and what they might be afraid of. You're stable and feel confident you can provide stable, steady support and meet with regularity.

Please do not message me if you're solely looking for a NSA /FWB arrangement.

I'd love to know more about you. What makes you tick? What are you passionate about? What are your values? What makes you curious, in and out of the bedroom?

*** IMPORTANT***

Please PM me if interested - and only PM. Also, photos in first message are ideal (but, you know, privacy - I get it!).

Other things that will get you immediately and gleefully blocked:

• You don't live in the Raleigh area (sorry!)

• You're staunchly Vanilla

• You send me a dick pic

• You wax poetic about your dick (🙄)

• You're creepy and/or overly graphic and/or objectify me in your messages

ps: ONCE AGAIN, NO DICK PICS.

Cheers ✌🏻