I am married. I am bisexual. I switch.

I just wanted to get that out of the way. Those qualities are deal breakers for many people and I am not here to mislead anyone. I am looking for an online relationship. I am open to voice and video if we get there. I am not going to pester you for pictures. I am looking for an emotional connection with a real person. I have plenty of material for visual stimulation.

Everyone wants to feel loved and wanted. I would like to find someone that I can offer that to and that will want to do the same for me. D/s means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Some believe their own definition is the One True Way. I am not one of them. People are different and while we all want love, how we want that love expressed is different. Communication is paramount. Let me say that again. Communication is paramount. “Sounds good.” Is not communication. If what I am saying touches you on a deep level and you feel compelled to respond, please wait. Think about what you want to say before replying. Tell me what you really hope to find. You want effort from me, you need to give in return.

Having said that, it is only fair I express what I hope to find. Feminine presenting. That's right, I am not opposed to those who might have a little something extra. Since I am looking for online, I am less concerned about appearances. It would be nice to find someone that I find attractive. However, if we have a deep emotional connection, I have no doubt I will find you attractive. Ideally, I would love to find someone interested in switching, but that may just be a mythical unicorn. I am not insisting on it.

I will insist you be capable of carrying on a conversation. You should like to read. You should enjoy music. You must have something that you feel passionate about. I know not everyone does, but I do not align well with people can not get their panties in a bunch over something absolutely ridiculous to everyone else.

We can get into more specifics about sexual turn ons and turn offs later. It will give us something to discuss while we see if we are good at communicating back and forth. You should not be turned off by swallowing semen or anal sex. I know that is not everyone's cup of tea, but if these are hard limits for you we are not going to have much common ground.

I know this defines about 75% of the population. I am open. What is more important is how we interact and there really is no way to express that ahead of time.

For my princess I am loving, attentive, funny. Since this will only be online, I will check in regularly via e-mail. I will let you know if I am not going to be online for a day or more. I will ask about you and how you are doing. Crazy, right? Every e-mail is not going to be 'what are you wearing'? Do not get me wrong, I am a sexual being and I will indulge in sexy fun times. But our relationship will be more than just sexual.

I am older, 48. As I mentioned, I am married and I have a daughter. So yes, I know how to treat a princess. Although, my daughter would never consent to being labeled as such. She is a kick ass young woman who would give Arya Stark a run for her money. She is also an amazing lesbian.

I work for the state doing computer stuff. I am a bit of a computer nerd. I play video games and love Wikipedia. I am also a table top role playing game nerd. If you do not know what that is, its Dungeons and Dragons and other games like that. I read, although not as much as I should. I enjoy Fantasy, Science Fiction and some non fiction History. I could be considered part of the Radical Left. I do not hunt Nazis, but I say mean things about them on Twitter. I am also an atheist. If you are religious, that is fine. I generally do not talk about religion unless someone else brings it up. I believe in your freedom to believe what you want.

If you have read this far, you probably have questions. That is great. Send them to me. If you are not interested or one of those things I mentioned at the very beginning is a deal breaker, I honestly do not know why you kept reading. No hard feelings and I wish you the best.

MasterMischief