So I actually got a response from my last post and it was quite pleasant, but doesn't seem to be working out.

As such, I'm at it again. A few things to get out of the way first:

Married / Online (w/ possible IRL later) / Total Control (eventual)

If you're looking for a committed, 1 on 1 relationship, I'm sorry, but I'm not the guy you're looking for... however, if you're still reading this, then there's still hope. And where there's hope, a chance of happiness could follow.

I'm happily married to my wife. This isn't an affair sort of thing, nor is it strictly poly. My wife is aware that there are needs I can't really satisfy with her, and she supports me seeking someone to fill those needs. There's always the possibility that she might be interested in play down the line, but I wouldn't go into it expecting that.

What I'm Looking For

You should be younger than me (30) but still somewhat mature. This isn't to say that I'm against those with child-like hearts or similar dependencies. Rather, you need to be mature enough to know that this is what you want. I'll never fault anyone for trying and then realizing that they were mistaken when they assumed it would work. But if the attitude going in is "eh, maybe it will work," then it's likely a waste of effort for both of us.

I'm willing to work with a woman older than me (let's put the upper boundary at around 35ish), but I'm definitely veering more to the 23-26 demographic. The right person at 18 - 20 could still be of interest, but it's really difficult at those ages to know precisely what you want and to commit to it.

What I Want to Do

As stated initially, I'm looking for a doll to control. I don't expect total control, especially not at the beginning. Such control requires time, chemistry, and, above all else, trust earned from experience. The eventual goal is total control, but to start with I simply want someone I can talk to and influence. I'll make suggestions, things you can wear, things you should watch, how I want you to masturbate and so on, but we'll build from those suggestions before we move onto demands and deeper levels of control.

I want someone I can shape. The most important aspect of this desire is that it's based on the person. I won't know what I want someone to be until I get to know them. Maybe I'll decide that I want you to give up pants and go full skirts and dresses. Or, depending on the person, I might shape you into an even deeper femininity as a Lolita. Or I could go in a different direction and shape you into a bimbo. Maybe I'll just up your image as the cute girl next door, or a little devoted to her "daddy."

What Attracts Me

If I were to go through my history of partners in dating and up through my wife, you'd quickly find that my tastes run the gamut of what exists. There are certain things that I am more attracted to and things I don't find attractive, but there's no way I could conceivably cover all options in succinct post.

I'm 6'1" with a larger build. I'm not a giant, but I'm a big dude. I have an affinity for smaller women. Not just tiny as in height (4'11" - 5'2") but also in build. I love cute more than anything else. However, curvy can be quite attractive to me too. Part of what I find attractive is knowing someone or helping someone find their identity, so that they make the most out of whatever it is about them that is appealing to the eye.

My wife is neither short nor small, so I want to be clear that I'm willing to get to know someone on the taller side (5'11"ish) and that being "bigger" isn't necessarily a turn-off.

I'd prefer someone with a chipper or positive attitude. Or, lacking that, someone trying to change their more negative outlook into a positive one.

If you're interested, please feel free to send me a private message or chat. I'm a fairly private person, but if we hit it off, I'm more than willing to share pictures and other information rather quickly. Being able to have those details about you is a major plus.