I'm pretty normal. Or at least, I am as normal as someone posting here might me. I have wonderful parents who raised me well and taught me how to be an adult. I have annoying siblings who gave me a bit of a competitive streak and a drive to always be better. I received a fantastic education, whether it was my Catholic grade school, my preppy boarding high school, or my engineering college. I have great friends that have created many fun memories. I have several hobbies that I spend more on then I care to admit. I have a book collection that grows faster than I can read it. Don't get me wrong... I also have my quirks. Who doesn't? But overall I'd like to think I have my shit together.
I am also very kinky. I could attribute it to a lot of things: a first girlfriend who was naturally submissive, a love of knots during my time in the Boy Scouts, a desire to break from my daily structured life and take whatever I want... Whatever the reason, the fact remains that I enjoy a wide variety of kinks. Bondage, non-consent, pain, power dynamics... I cast a wide net.
As for my partner. First and foremost, I'm looking for someone who is in a similar place in life. Someone who also has their shit together and isn't looking for someone who will pick up the pieces. I'm looking for someone who is independent, successful, and knows what they want. I also want someone who will submit completely to me.
Not immediately of course. Truthfully, that's kind of a turnoff. There needs to be some kind of trust, respect, and chemistry for that to even be considered. There needs to be that foundation that everything else can build off of. The building blocks that let a deeper desire form. And once that desire exists, I can make you my fucktoy.
And even more importantly, you want to be my fucktoy. You want me to tie you down, to degrade you, to tell you how to please me, to call me Sir. Getting pleasure just knowing that I want you that badly. Trusting me to only hurt you in the ways you enjoy. Knowing that at the end of the night, we'll still be equals as we drift off to sleep.
So if this speaks to you in any way, let's find out if we have chemistry and see where a conversation may lead us. Even if you have no experience at all. Even if you're just interested in making a new kinky friend. Let's see if we can both find what we're looking for.
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