Hiya! I'm interested in meeting a kinky or kink-curious, emotionally available, kind man for cute dates and (possible) sexy times.... and seeing where that takes us, yeah? Also: I'm queer and poly and lean toward ethical non-monogamy, so ideally you'd be flexible towards that. I love art museums, dive bars, indie movie theatres, punk shows, and any media that makes me step back and reassess the world around me. (I listen to a LOT of therapy and sexual health podcasts, and write a LOT of romance fiction, so that's pretty much all you need to know about me)

But I digress...

I'm 22 years old, tough, tender, and tiny. In all relationships, I'm devoted. Sharp as a whip. I'm curvy, petite in the chest and thick in the booty (where it counts, let's be real), short hair, tattooed, vaguely goth. Think Lena Dunham but 10x cuter and 1000x sweeter. In bed, I have heavily submissive leanings and would love to find a dude with dominant/Dom leanings.

I'm into: patience, enthusiastic consent, emotional vulnerability, compassion, open-mindedness, affectionate cruelty, being appreciated beyond my body (and what I can accomplish with it), learning new things, trying new things, sessions that last entire afternoons, frank yet sensitive communication, feeling special, and being special. I also love The Office more than anything in this world.

You: 25-45 (ideally late 20's, early thirties) residing in the city of Chicago and able to host. You're able to express yourself emotionally and be vulnerable; you seek this in others. You're kinky as fuck, ideally, and understand that a scene is nothing without mutual trust, safety, and open communication. You're a sadist, hedonist, a Daddy Dom, or a whole other combination of archetypes who love affectionate, firm, uplifting, consensual cruelty.

I'd love to know more about you. What makes you tick? What are you passionate about? What are your values? What makes you curious, in and out of the bedroom?

*** IMPORTANT***

Please PM me if interested - and only PM. If you leave a comment, Kik me, Fetlife me, show up at my house... you're going to be blocked. Also, photos in first message are ideal (but, you know, privacy - I get it!).

Other things that will get you immediately and gleefully blocked:

• You don't live in Chicago (the city proper)

• You cannot host (this is a big one tbh)

• You have zero kink experience

• You send me a dick pic

• You wax poetic about your dick (🙄)

• You're creepy and/or overly graphic and/or objectify me in your messages

ps: ONCE AGAIN, NO DICK PICS.

Cheers ✌🏻