Hey everyone :) Sooo I suck at writing these, but I'll try! I'm James, 22 years old and I live in the UK (England, Warwickshire area, not really too bothered where you're located in the UK as I'm willing to travel). Can send photo's of myself but would also like it if you could do the same, I'm on fetlife too with quite a lot of photo's on there if anyone has it, if you want to see just ask! I also have a tumblr blog where I post pictures of the kinds of things I'm into, that should give you a good idea of what I like. Also I am VERY shy at first, it takes me a while to get comfortable with people so my preference is to talk a bit online to start with, getting to know each other really.

What I'm hoping to find is a long term relationship with someone, who at the same time would also be my Mistress if that makes sense. So like a 24/7 female led femdom relationship basically, with someone who really enjoys being dominant and loves having control, and who shares the same kinks as me. I am a very shy person but pretty outgoing, I enjoy going to new places and I'm up for doing most things if it gets me out the house doing something. I enjoy going on random walks / drives and exploring new places but unfortunately I barely ever do that right now. I would like this to be an in person thing eventually, not just online. However I like to speak to people online for a while to get to know them first rather than just rushing it, to see if we match up and feel comfortable with each other. And I want something that is meaningful too where we have feelings for each other, I want to be someones one and only submissive (male, at least) and I have no interest in cuckolding. I want to be controlled, owned and loved. Until I find that though, I will also consider friends and playmates.

Now, onto my kinks. I'm into most things and I am willing to try things I am unsure on if you'd want to try something too. My hard limits are toilet play, needle / knife play, sounding (for now), hard ballbusting (like punching and kicking, I'll take slapping just not the extreme stuff like pull on punches or kicks) and I think that's about it. My biggest kink by far has to be (tight!) bondage, if I'm submitting then I would much prefer to be restrained in some way, preferably quite tightly ;) My favorite kind of restraint is a bitchsuit, since it makes you totally helpless but at the same time you can still move around (very slowly) by crawling around on your hands and knees, so basically they turn you into a pet haha :) Other kinks I really enjoy are chastity (I have a full, inescapable chastity belt), CBT (have a fair bit of experience doing that on myself!), forced worship (like facesitting / foot worship whilst I'm all tied up and HAVE to worship and lick them, I especially have a huge foot fetish!), punishments (like whipping / slapping, stuff like that), predicament bondage, tickling (very curious but also scared about that!), electro play (I just got an estim box, which can also be controlled online), anal play (I have pretty much zero experience with this but I'm very excited to try it, I've used a butt plug only once and I'd love to try take a strapon), and much, much more. I'm very good at coming up with lots of fun ideas too if you give me a scenario :)

I own loads of equipment, including multiple gags, lots of locking cuffs, lots of locking belts in different lengths, plenty of rope, a few chastity devices, some CBT toys, e-stim box with electro cock rings and elcetro butt plug, a full leather sensory deprivation hood, a thick leather bondage waist belt and more. Reaaaally want to buy a well fitting set of steel shackles as I prefer cuffs and straps over rope, and they look totally awesome!

Hope that was decent at least, message if interested or if you want more details, thanks :)