Bonus points to whomever recognized the quote in the title. I sure as hell didn't when I went looking for something catchy. Still, how can you not love a good Dumbledore quote? But I digress...

I'm LocumTenens, because Latin phrases make for some cool-sounding throwaways. I am by many accounts your typical 27-year-old male living in northern New Jersey. I'm 5'9", 150lbs, and consider myself athletic. If that's not specific enough for you: I've completed a Tough Mudder, can do over 10 pull-ups, and fit comfortably into a size 31 pair of pants. Pics available upon request. I graduated college with a STEM degree and have been working ever since in a stable white-collar job. I have great friends, a loving family, and probably a handful of enemies. I am a firm believer in the Oxford comma, and if you aren't, we may have problems already. I hate writing personal bios because it feels like I'm applying for a job, so suffice it to say I have some positive qualities.

But this isn't about me. This is about us, or what I hope will lead to an "us". I'm looking for an adventure partner, plain and simple. Life is a series of adventures, and those adventures are best experienced with someone else. Hiking in the Adirondacks and taking the path less traveled, roaming the streets of Manhattan and finding a quirky dive bar, relaxing in a hammock together while getting lost in a book, or exploring a new hobby that neither of us have tried. There is too much out there to just go to work, eat dinner, and watch the news (especially today's news). I'm hoping to find someone who feels the same.

To quote another member of this community, "You may be wondering what any of this has to do with BDSM, intrepid reader." An excellent question, and one I hope to answer for you. Put simply, I think we can all agree that many great adventures take place behind closed doors. Sex and everything surrounding it is exciting, funny, romantic, kinky, scary, and just plain fun. I find that the BDSM community moreso than many embodies this.

This, again, is where you come in. There is no denying that much of the kink world either necessitates or is vastly improved by having a partner. As for where things go from there, consider me flexible. If you want specifics, here are some colored circles. I am a firm believer in trust, respect, and communication though, so once those are established, I have no doubt that the sky's the limit.

If for some reason you're still reading this and think we may have some chemistry, by all means let me know. Or if you don't think we have chemistry, give me a podcast suggestion. I'm running out of material on my evening runs.

-LocumTenens-