Because they don't. Not really, at least to me. I take pleasure in my partner's. It's funny because it's so damn simple. Do you like it when I draw what you think is a blade across your neck, or would you rather I push you on your knees and hold you up by your hair? I will do both.
Yes, I have preferences. Yes, some things sometimes don't work. But if I see you fucking love something, well... that look in your eyes, and desperation with which you type your words? That makes up for a hell of a lot.
So let it be said that it doesn't matter much. Show me what you like, mean it when you talk, and be honest. I know I am capable of those things, and to boot I have experience in the execution. Even when that execution is hard.
Show me who you are, and I'll return the favor ten fold. I will be honest when it works and when it doesn't. I only ask that you do the same.
I'll ask questions - answer. Or tell me you honestly don't know. Won't be the first time I help teach someone what they love. I hope to hell it won't be the last.
So, let's do something different. Tell me what you want. A deep desire or what confuses you about new feelings you have. We'll walk towards it together and I'll take my pleasure from yours. Then tell me again, honestly, and openly.
The rest really doesn't matter.
Note: I'm located in the US - Central time. I guess that matters - Can't connect with someone while I'm unconscious :)
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