Hello there,

Maybe you're curious, wandering the internet trying to figure out what it is that turned you on so much about recent movies. Maybe you got started like me, after wandering down a rabbit hole of porn that turned you on, but you felt was not "OK." Maybe you are just getting out and exploring for the first time. Welcome. BDSM is a fun world, and a helluva rabbit hole. For me, it just clicked. The first munch I went to, the first dungeon, the first time I was called sir, and given control... intoxicating. I'd like to give you that same feeling. Why?

Because I don't think anyone should go through life not learning about their kinks - there's too much fun to be had once you know them! Because BDSM in mainstream culture drives me nuts, since consent is not respected as it should be. Because whether it's with me or someone else, you should have a positive example of kink so you understand what those relationships can be like.

So, maybe you got turned on by Grey, but don't think that could ever be real life (it can!). Maybe you've had bad experiences and need someone who cares about your well being to show you what a good experience looks like. Maybe you want someone safe?

I'm all those things and a bit of a kink chameleon. I thrive on your enjoyment, so if you teach me how these thoughts make you feel, I'll use them to make you feel hot. You might need someone to tell you to kneel, and slap you. You might need someone strict, stern, and uncaring. You might need someone to caress you and make you ask for a hand on your ass, for pain. Trust me with your kinks, and I will repay that trust by opening up your sexual life more than a little.

Online for now, who knows, maybe more later. Send me a message - I don't bite unless you let me ;)