During daytime I slave away at a desk solving the IT-problems of people that shouldn't operate anything remotely capable of crashing. When I go home though I do like to indulge in certain fantasies where I explore the gentle, yet firm (and no that's not an oxymoron) side of kink. Kink is such a vastly interesting thing that every day I think that I learned everything, and every day I am shown I am wrong.

When I believe in something I'm commited to it. My submissive will have my undevided attention. Her happiness is paramount to mine.

That's just fair, I expect the same commitment from my partner.

My kink isn't pain-play. I dislike the idea of hurtig someone. I want the other person to feel safe.

Some have said my style is like a Daddy, but unlike a Daddy I don't want a little girl. There is no joy in exploring infantile behavior to me. I like someone who acts my age, but I like to take care of her.

I seek someone between the age of 18 and 30. Preferably european based.

My kinks are control-based

I like to control everything I am allowed to control. I feel comfortable behind the wheel. I feel good there and if I can find someone who wishes to let go. Let me decide what to wear, when to cum, when to kneel and when to squeel, well then that's a match made in kink-heaven.

In return I provide honesty. I tell you when you didn't fill my desires and why, I tell you when you made my cock so hard I had to find a bathroom. There will be no sugar-coating as I don't believe in it. Someone who likes to serve, should know what to do to make her partner happy, I hope to be able to provide that.

I will also be there if you need suport, need a listening ear or a friend.

Because in the end what I seek is someone who can be my friend first. Someone who will, with the idea of letting go eventually, approach me as her equal. Only that way can I decide if you are for me, and if I am for you.

I mention online in my add. I live where I live, and that's overal not where this community lives. If someone does live near me, it would be amazing, but I can cope with playing in the virual world for now.

If we click, I would love to meet.

When you respond to my add feel free to add any questions you have. I will share a picture upon request.