I am an IT-professional with an interest in the gentle, yet firm, side of domination. I have been into kink for 6 years and almost every year added to it, makes me feel like I know less and less. Kink is so vast and interesting that every day I learn that I have more to learn.

I consider myself hard-working and commited. As my submissive my attention would be undevided. I would be there for you, even if it means waking in the middle of the night or sneaking off to the bathroom at work. The woman I own would be paramount.

This is just what I think is fair, as I expect a similar commitment from that person.

Preferable someone who doesn't expect to be abused, who doesn't want to be hurt and prefers to feel safe.

I've been told I can be a little bit of a Daddy, but I have no desire to be with a woman who doesn't act her age and I find no joy in acting out the interesting details of age-difference. Still the gentle, owning side of a daddy is far more my schpiel than the harsher sides some doms like to explore.

I seek someone between the age of 18 and 30. I have little to no preferences on the physical side, except that I have to mention a breast-fetish. Larger breasts are definitely a plus.

My kinks are control-based

I like to control everything I am allowed to control. I feel comfortable behind the wheel. I feel good there and if I can find someone who wishes to let go. Let me decide what to wear, when to cum, when to kneel and when to squeel, well then that's a match made in kink-heaven.

In return I provide honesty. I tell you when you didn't fill my desires and why, I tell you when you made my cock so hard I had to find a bathroom. There will be no sugar-coating as I don't believe in it. Someone who likes to serve, should know what to do to make her partner happy, I hope to be able to provide that.

I will also be there if you need suport, need a listening ear or a friend.

Because in the end what I seek is someone who can be my friend first. Someone who will, with the idea of letting go eventually, approach me as her equal. Only that way can I decide if you are for me, and if I am for you.

I mention online in my add. I live where I live, and that's overal not where this community lives. If someone does live near me, it would be amazing, but I can cope with playing in the virual world for now.

If we click, I would love to meet.

When you respond to my add feel free to add any questions you have. I will share a picture upon request.