Hi,

I'm looking for a relationship. I just so happen to be kinky and thus would like to knock out one random variable before I start the 'how do you do?'

Let's talk about my personality before my kinks.

Charming, eloquent, intuitive, observant are all things I've heard before or try to embody. Sometimes though, it can be quite fun to be a wise/smart/dumb ass for the sake of. I've been known to be quite punny and I say that with all seriousness. I'm a gemini, and somewhat spiritual, but it's my spirituality, I don't have any intention of making it anyone else's.

Arts wise, I like film and television the most. Music follows closely, with design, then reading at the bottom. I read plenty, getting my daily digg in, just haven't found many books that I can't put down.

Some of my favorite shows: Archer, Harvey Birdman, The West Wing, The Critic. Shows you can expect me to quote.

Music wise: I'm all over the place, save for country and rap, but there's some I do in fact have.

Kink wise: I'm on the mental side of the spectrum. This is a role I take on because I enjoy it for sex. Much like putting on a favorite outfit to go to a function. Over time I've further sculpted the role, but it's still a role. It has meaning, make no mistake.

24/7 I am not. Maybe 24/3 max.

My biggest kink is dirty talk, mainly receiving but also giving. I also enjoy anal, cum, fashion, pet, and object play quite heavily.

Things I'm not a fan of: needles, scat, blood, marking, cutting, extreme bondage, masochism. (Just because I'm not a fan, doesn't mean I disapprove or judge.)

I don't have any qualm about say I'm intelligent, creative and considerate. At minimum, I'd like you to have these qualities. Physical attraction is a factor, but I find my perception of people's physique can change as I learn more about their persona.

So, that's me in a large, wordy nutshell. I have an extensive post history, feel free to peruse. I hope to hear from you, and if I'm not for you, but you actually read all this: good'on'ya, and good luck to you.

Edit: I am active on fetlife in the Chicago community, but would not like to give my name publicly here.