Good morning, good evening or good afternoon (or whatever you use where you are!)

I'll split the post into two parts for ease - short and sweet and long and... luscious? I'm not sure that works linguistically but I will go with it.

Addition from my previous post, please be able to keep a conversation going and if you are going to be busy in life, tell me and be realistic with yourself and your time as well as mine. And I realise, I am not going to be in high demand due to being too young to be old and too old to be young but if you like the mid range guy who has his life together and can help you reach the same point (or even just have time to kill with someone who will use and nurture / break you, shoot your shot).

Short / Bulleted Version :

• Single Male, 29, based in the UK
• Hobbies include cycling, cooking and things not beginning with C
• Previously occupied both submissive and dominant roles - identify as dominant with switch tendencies but nowadays tend to be pure dom
• Conversationalist - I love knowledge so if I am learning, I am interested
• Emotional intelligence is important to me
• I love setting targets and hitting them or consequences if I don't which I also bring to this side of myself
• Motivated by travel and culture. Not just 'I've been there' more 'I lived that'
• Looking for a partner to train and help teach but also for you to teach me things about myself. I am open to newbies and experienced people alike - I have been in the lifestyle for 9 years at this point in a mix of relationships, play partners and one offs.
• If you need someone to 'break' you and build you back up - I can 100% fulfil that role and it is my preference, but it will come with a mix of tears and after care

Long Version (basic kink list within) :

This one is going to be more paragraphed and sentence based so if you have read the above, some will be repeats and some will be additions.

Thank you for reading first of all - I know this might seem long but I hope it will be worth your time.

A bit about me first of all, I love animals and cooking. Generally, I find all types of animals interesting - some I find curious - Men Who Stare At Goats isn't an accurate description but I could quite happily watch goats spread joy and generally wreck stuff for hours. I am big into learning cooking in general, I bake bread, love learning new dishes and inevitably, making a first abomination before perfecting dishes over time from homely to more out there - I like moderate spice but not too much. 'Why am I telling you this?' you may be thinking - I want to find someone who respects me on many levels and I can harmonise with long term.

In terms of hobbies, I am generally a mix of outdoorsy and indoorsy - see 'human' as a definition. I definitely prefer the indoors and I am much more of a warm than a cold person, as much as I burn easily (the lesser known Natasha Bedingfield parody - maybe an insight to my music tastes too). I like going on walks, not into extreme sports but I do enjoy anything such as swimming, rafting or just sitting at home with TV and coffee. I work a Monday - Friday job in an office environment but have a mix of WFH and office which gives the perfect blend.

Right, now I have bored you by saying, I am a typical human, I will move onto the more why you are here.

Firstly, I am much more of an ongoing type person than session based so I tend towards TPE but it doesn't have to be TPE if that isn't where you want to head right away - it would be an aim of mine to have more control but respect and pacing is important. I like regular communication throughout the week, not just a message as an afterthought, something meaningful but that doesn't mean I need you to live on your phone, waiting on my every whim.

I'll try to summarise in terms of kinks - I am generally very interest in being mentally stimulated so the range of kinks I enjoy is vast - the one I love most is piss, but realise that is too gross for some. I have experienced with predicaments both bondage and choice based, pain, humiliation, degradation and a lot more depravity besides this list which I am happy to discuss. I am very rules / action & consequence based in my approach and the one thing I pride myself on is consistency, I do have moments where I just want a sub to feel exposed but I try to make it not too embarrassing - well, on occasion, everyone loves embarrassment, right?

Now I have bored you witless, I'll try to wrap up. I am just a simple guy with simple interests and I am hoping to add you to the list, you can be of any build, any race, all I am seeking is a committed passion to either continue your journey, start your journey or try something new. Life is for fun and a positive outlook with a wicked twist is what I can offer.

In terms of the location, timezone and experience, I am flexible - my routine isn't firm as I have got many commitments beside work and my general sleep schedule works with both West Coast US and all the way to Japan in the opposite direction so if you live in... the world, I am interested. Generally, Africa, Europe and Indian subcontinent are most compatible along with US Eastern states but I can flex for the right fit.

Thanks for reading,

B