Hey, let's start with vanilla and get to know us first. I am 32 years old male, 6 feet tall, broad build, and a little Nerdy. My submissive is a 35 year old women, 5 feet 1 inch tall, and a bit shy. We both enjoy cuddling up with a good movie/ show, play games, get outdoors, kayak, fishing, and go to the beach. My job is all about the numbers as I am a data analyst, and I love what I do. I also enjoy to play video games, disc golf, grill, and cook. My submissive works as a call center rep part time and enjoys curling up with a good book. She also likes to play games like Stardew Valley and is very artistic. Now, onto the kinky things in our life. We like a girl who is strong, independent, sweet, and shy in life but is also willing to become my submissive and be a little to have fun and have play dates with princess. We feel that everyone should be treated with respect and kindness and make sure they feel valued. I think that in this dynamic communication is essential, I need to make sure you feel heard and understood so you can feel comfort in my control. I like to be called daddy and she likes to be called kitten/princess when alone and prefer to keep kink stuff secret. However that does that mean we cant do things in secret. Our kinks are bondage/BDSM, anal play (long-term control), collars, pet play, spanking, ddlg, chastity, edging, orgasm control, and denial. I also always find it hot picking a women's outfit and seeing her get dressed for me. I do not prefer to harm the body as I lean towards a soft and caring daddy dom but can be strict when needed. I do like taming a brat which can add fun to the dynamic sometimes. Our preference in a women are that she is smaller than 6ft as I like to be the protector. Age preferences are between 25-35. Ideally, we would like to start things slow online and get to know each other. We are looking for someone to join our relationship and would ideally want a long term poly relationship. As a poly relationship we are looking for a submissive or a switch but as a dom I will not be controlled I am in charge. I also think that even tho it's a dom and sub and sub relation it still should be equal in terms of effort and all work in the relationship and push for success. We should be building and growing and pushing each other to become our best selves. I like to build my submissive up and help her feel good about herself and achieve her goals. Ideally if this works out we would like you to relocate. Our main deal breakers are must want kids with me, does not smoke cigarettes, no cats (both allergic), and understanding that no games are to be played with each other emotions we are looking to have a strong relationship that values everyone equally. Please feel free to reach out even if you don't meet everything above we are very open.