Just wanted to say that while the end goal of what I am looking for is 24/7 TPE I don’t enjoy rushing into these types of arrangements.  While the end result is all encompassing, the path to that goal is achieved step by step with lots of small agreements. For each step they would be lots of discussions so that we both feel comfortable and enjoy the deepping of the dynamic. A major turn on for me is degrading and humiliating my sub, and seeing them getting turn on. When my sub isn’t enjoying herself, I can’t enjoy myself. Limits and safe words are always respected as they allow me to know that my sub is always safe and let me feel comfortable using my sub.

The type of relationship I am looking for is a 24/7 TPE live-in arrangement. The live-in part is not something I am expecting to happen over night. I am expecting this take to years to get to final point. Obviously this is pretty intense and would have to be something worked up to after a lot of time, patience and understanding. This is fine with me as I'm not looking for a quick hook up, but instead building a long term relationship. I would expect the relationship would start with us just getting to know each other, go deeper into who we are, what we want. Once we feel comfortable we can start with rules and tasks and go from there. I really want a dynamic where both our needs and wants are being met.

I want to make my sub into the perfect sub for me. I like being strict and controlling all aspects of my sub. I want someone who devotes their life in serving me in return I will make sure my sub is always protected, provided for, supported and safe. I have had both brats, and a service sub before and were happy with both. Long term I would be happy with a sub that wants to be a stay at home wife or has her own career. Either way I would support her. In public we would just be a normal couple, but in private I would own and control everything about you.

I would not say I am sadistic but I do enjoy being rough with my sub. I like degradation, humiliation, spanking, slapping, hair pulling, bondage, spitting and face fucking. I enjoy tossing around my sub and just being a little selfish giving into my desires. At the same time I will be there when my sub needs my support and love. I treat my sub as my most treasured object and I will do whatever is needed to take care of her.

Outside of kink I work in industrial automation and have been working in that industry for over 5 years. For my enjoyment I spend my time watching movies and TV, gaming with friends and board games. I enjoy going out to eat or going to whatever exciting event is going on that week with my special someone. I play hockey, running and weight lifting for physical activity. Personality wise I am easy going, sarcastic and curious. Would love to hear from you if this add is something that speaks to you.