Are you struggling to find a dominant figure in your life willing to actually stick around? Are you tired of the constant demand for pics within the first 10 minutes of chatting? Are you exhausted from getting excited about a potential connection only to find he ghosted you? Tired of the lies? Fake doms? Poor communication? Disrespecting boundaries?

I'm tired of being associated with them.

I want to find someone willing to go through the process of understanding each other with the intention of a long-term total power exchange dynamic. I want our connection to on the level of a long distance relationship while having a complete understanding of what our roles are.

I am happy to be an overall support figure in the life of my sub. Not just keep them as a sexual plaything, while they absolutely will be a plaything for me, I'm seeking far more than that. I want to use our dynamic to better our lives. Whether that's accountability for routine, school, work, family, or simply self-care, I intend to incorporate rewards and punishments into the mundane life tasks to both entertain myself and control you. I am rather intelligent, believe I am quite emotionally intelligent, well educated, generally happy with my life and I'm at a point where I would like to introduce someone to invest my extra time into.

Physically, I believe I'm rather attractive. I'm white, Western European descent, Hazel eyes, long brown hair, wide linebacker frame, about 5 ft 10 in tall, hwp with big hands, natural strength and a trimmed beard. I'm seeking a woman petite to curvy, hwp, generally considered cute, shorter, that is generally feminine. I'm open to race, 18-30 years old (not a hard cap at 30), tattoos and piercings are a plus, alt or goth is a big plus but not required. I'm in PST so generally within a few hours is ideal.

Again I'm ultimately looking for a slow burn and commitment. I want to be incorporated into every area of my Subs life overtime whether that's just for oversight to make sure she is keeping her promises or sticking to her goals or directly making decisions for her.

A list of interests to work up to, but not all are required. Wardrobe control, diet control, exercise control, homework, assignments, tasks, chores, financial oversight, education management, tracking, lifestyle choices, social control, private exhibition, toys, penetration, humiliation, degradation, lifestyle modifications, anal, atm, free use, breath control, throating, plugs, collars, leash, clamps, body writing, rewards, punishments, pet play, voluntary obedience, etc.

I'm open to monogamy and non monogamy depending on the individual, also open to someone partnered as long as that relationship doesn't impact what I'm looking for. To show you've read this, please include cats in your message somewhere. Since this is a very large commitment to my time, I'm asking that you make sure that this is something that you are willing to invest in before reaching out.