Who I’m Looking For:

I seek a heterosexual man between 24 and 44 years old, taller than 5’5. You should be healthy, both physically and mentally, with no serious health conditions or addictions. We all have our struggles, but I’m looking for someone who is generally stable and functional in daily life. You should also be well-employed, financially stable, and have at least a college or associate degree. Living independently and owning a car is a must. Ideally, you’re based in Chicago or can travel here regularly.

I admire a partner who is respectful, protective, decisive yet considerate, and confident enough to lead without being controlling. I lean toward traditional roles in that I appreciate someone comfortable taking on the financial burden, even though I’m not a fan of cooking every day.

About Me:

I’m a 27-year-old healthcare professional and student, dedicated to my career with long-term plans that will remain unchanged no matter how committed we become. I lead a busy, ever-changing life and value personal growth alongside mutual adventure—I’m not interested in a 24/7 dynamic.

I’m 5’4 with a dark skin tone and a naturally radiant look—I prefer minimal makeup, just a touch of lipstick and my favorite earrings to enhance my features. My style is all about comfort and warmth—I get cold easily, so I prioritize cozy, layered clothing that keeps me feeling good while still looking put together.

I have a healthy body (160 lbs) and stay active in ways I enjoy—I’m not a gym fanatic, but I like keeping fit on the treadmill and hiking. I appreciate balance in life, valuing both cozy nights in and outdoor adventures.

I have an adventurous yet grounded spirit—while I prefer peaceful, uncrowded spaces, I’m always up for discovering cool sites and hidden gems, safely. There will be no cave exploring and unnecessary risk taking. I love camping, hiking, and waterfalls, and one of my future goals is to own an RV and embrace the freedom of the open road. Blues and corals are my favorites, and they reflect my calm yet vibrant personality.

A fun fact about me? I’m completely blind without my glasses in unfamiliar places, so if we’re going on an adventure, expect me to trust you to lead!

Lifestyle & Beliefs

I rarely drink and never smoke or use drugs. I believe in God (though I’m not religious), and I envision a future that may include children and a self-sufficient, off-grid, farm-to-table lifestyle (minus the responsibilities of raising animals).

I’m not into pets and prefer a home without them. However, I’m willing to compromise on a well-kept aquarium with plants, fish, some snails, or ghost shrimp—nothing else.

Kinks and Boundaries

I enjoy role play and dom/sub dynamics, including a modified form of consensual non-consent—provided every scenario is clearly negotiated in advance. I like incorporating tasks, goals, and a touch of routine into our play. However, I have firm boundaries: • No asphyxiation: Safety is paramount. • No tattoos: I prefer a clean aesthetic and do not appreciate tattoos or any display of ownership through body art, on myself or my partner. • No humiliation: Mutual respect is essential. • Privacy: I prefer these activities remain intimate and mostly confined to the bedroom.

I’m not interested in a strict master/slave dynamic, extreme sadism/masochism, race play, or anal activities. Every aspect of our play will be discussed in detail to ensure we both feel comfortable and excited.

In Summary

I’m looking for a partner who can be both my safe haven and my adventurous co-explorer—a confident, respectful man who balances passion with stability. If you are not interested in a long-term relationship, please don’t bother.

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