Hi, 41yo Bi Dom from London in search of a cerebral connection with aims to building a long term service dynamic.

I'm less interested in specific physical kinks as a Dom and more focused on building a connection with a submissive and exploring those as the dynamic grows.

What I am looking for though is a natural submissive, who seeks to devote themselves to their Dominant / Master. I'm in search of a service sub who gains satisfaction from serving their Master. Someone who gains a buzz, a wash of comfort and peace from completing tasks and doing as they're told.

As a Dom I'm kind, caring and supportive with a firm sometimes sadistic side. But with that I love order and structure, creating a safe environment for a sub to grow and express themselves in. I want a submissive who needs guidance and would delight in being given goals and tasks for their growth and the growth of the dynamic.

In addition I am very attracted to control. I wouldn't say I'm a micro manager, but gain satisfaction from being a submissives decision maker and putting in control frameworks where my choice is what drives a subs actions on a daily basis.

I prefer a submissive to be mostly compliant and don't appreciate much of a brat, but understand if that rears its head occasionally.

My primary love languages are acts of service and gift giving.

All of the above seems very serious, it's only one part to me. Day to day I don't come across as the stern authoritarian the above suggests. I'm smiley, silly, nerdy, somewhat playful and cuddly. Vanilla me enjoys gaming (board and computer), music, cooking, good food, comic books and seeing the world and would love a submissive who shared some of those interests too.

Thank you for reading and if I've piqued your interest I'd very much enjoy hearing back from you.