Hey all, hope to hear from anyone local and anyone willing to travel after getting to know each other.

Who am I?

I'm 26 and living in southern Oregon right on the coast. I have a home I own, a career that's taken me to a senior role at a top company, and a love for adventure. I'm handsome, 5'10", 140 pounds, and pretty fit. I have cute curls, nice teeth, really vascular arms, and I'm told my back is attractive.

I enjoy working in my garden or on DIY projects at my house like setting up ham radios, building a fence around the property, or creating a dedicated home office (I work remote). I like travel and fly around quite a bit for work and on my own adventures. I have an RV I love for both road trips and longer stays in distant RV parks - I once went 55 days straight on an 8,500 mile trip to a bunch of national parks in it. I love to ski and am really good at it. I published a short story on Amazon and have some other works out there, and had a photo as a print in a gallery for a while. I'm trying to learn violin at the moment.

I like the music of Chappell Roan, Mitski, Lana, Charli, and similar, especially if someone cute is singing it in my passenger seat. I listen to music pretty much all the time, so I have all kinds of stuff on from classical on up to 90s alt rock depending on the mood. My favorite philosopher is Ayn Rand and I don't really care much for other philosophers. I will almost assuredly try to show you 12 Monkeys, Dark City, and Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind. For books I love Cormac McCarthy, Stephen King, Tolkein, Robert Heinlein, and nonfiction esp about polar expeditions or similar adventures.

I've been told I am "girl-coded" and a "Lana boy."

I've enjoyed and am open to more casual connections, but would prefer to find monogamy with my ideal match, as a deeper connection is what makes a good D/s dynamic.

What am I interested in?

For me, BDSM is deeply rooted in my psyche and understanding of sexuality. I love the submission of a partner and seeing how far someone will go to please me, I enjoy the aesthetics of bondage in many ways, and I enjoy the heights of submission that are achievable with experimentation in more niche kinks. I've always been interested in power dynamics, and am a deeply commanding/leading individual with high expectations of those around me, for better or worse.

I've been told I'm "very good at the dominant thing" and in general am an extremely caring but strict dom that wants and loves to see submission up to as far as a sub's limits will go. I'm fairly experienced at D/s dynamics and am mostly just without a match at the moment. I have a sadistic side but I prefer to bring it out for punishment. I enjoy protocols for controlling a sub like having me approve a plan for how you're going to masturbate.

My only real hard limits are scat, vomit, ddlg, cucking, and other illegal/obviously objectionable kinks. Not including piss.

I enjoy all the more common stuff and am very creative in combining the collection of bondage gear I have together into interesting roleplays/scenes. Some examples:

• Subs wearing fox ears, a tail, cute garters, and similar outfits like this: https://www.tiktok.com/@goforthegoat/video/7314784141571165486

• All kinds of bondage, with belts, tape, saran wrap, purpose-made restraints, high class Italian leather cuff sets, I also love gags of all types

• Vibrators, impact play, other more pleasure/pain dynamic type things

Etc etc. I also really like making home movies and enjoy depraved Polaroids.

I have a huge medfet kink, and would love to control the entirety of a sub's senses at once with something like: https://www.reddit.com/r/packofilia/s/tDklsbHBHr. I've really wanted to try some extreme petplay, human furniture, and similar type play. I love seeing how far someone is willing to go to please me.

In general, I want to find someone who wants to submit to and dote on me as much as I want to take care of and make someone into my princess.

If my post resonates, send me a message.