I'm a CG who really, really likes doing this kinda thing. Making schedules, reminders, and rules for littles is something that comes naturally once trust is established and enforcing them is something I find really emotionally fulfilling. When I think of what being a CG means ideally, it makes me envision a protective layer over a little's way of being. A little can be little on their own technically but they can't be fully little because if they're alone they have to keep at least some part of their big brain turned on in case they need it for something. But a CG can take that need away and cushion the impact of everything around them.
It takes time to build that trust of course, and there's a lot of low stakes ways to be a CG that I love doing to build that trust, but when I think of what the endgame is I think of a relationship that, on top of us matching when not in our dynamic, let's you be little and me be a CG as deeply as we want. Where I make sure you're taking the medication you need to even when you forget, that you're looking at yourself in the mirror with happiness even when your insecurities are running wild. Where you feel safe to be little as a lifestyle or close to it when it doesn't impact our other responsibilities.
As far as littlespace things go too, I really like babyish littlespace or at least things in that vein. If you like or are interested in trying/using pacifiers, diapers, bottles, etc we'll mesh really well already lol.
There's a lot more I could speak on because I spend way too much time thinking about this but to give some background info on me, I'm currently a university student living/studying in Toronto and I work part time. I'm working towards a couple post grad degrees at the moment so I'll be in school for a while but the career paths I'm looking towards seem to pay well in the end 🫠. If you'd like to talk more DMs are free and if you read this far write the word "Juno" in your message plsss!
Have a great day
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