Hey! I'm a 28 year old (almost 29) FTM trans guy who is looking for a committed, long term relationship!   I know this post is long but please read the entire thing before messaging me.

Are you a daddy dom interested in a sub who is: * Looking for a CG/l focused dynamic * Super shy, sensitive, and needs to be shown kindness and patience * Very physically affectionate * Devoted, obedient, and very eager to please * Highly dependent on his dom * Will become a stay at home sub who takes care of the house for his dom * Wants to be trained and guided by his dom in life * Wants a real romantic relationship both in and out of kink

If the answer is yes then please read on!

About me:

• I live central Minnesota. I would prefer to find a partner who also lives in MN or who is close enough and willing to travel for regular visits. I will consider long distance so long as the goal is for us to meet in person ideally within a year. I crave cuddles way too much so I can't do online only forever.
• If we are long distance, I could possibly relocate to be with you at some point in the future but would much prefer if you relocated to me.
• As I said, I am a transgender guy. I've been on hormones for three years. I'm getting top surgery hopefully some time this year. I have no real plans to get bottom surgery but I am getting a hysterectomy very soon because I don't want to have children.
• I'm short (5'0"), a little chubby (~160lbs), wear glasses, and have a few facial piercings. I also deal with acne quite often. I'll be honest and say I don't think I really pass for a man very well. Don't expect me to look like a cis woman either, especially since I do have a good amount of body hair. (Misgendering is a hard limit. Do not call me a girl) I'll send SFW pictures if you want as long as you send some first but I prefer we talk for a little bit before that.
• I'm autistic, have ADHD, VERY bad anxiety, and deal with insomnia and chronic pain. I worry a lot and get scared very easily. Please be patient and gentle with me.
• I can't work or drive because I am disabled. Putting that out there right now because I know that it'll turn a lot of people away (which is understandable!). I'll always be very dependent on my partner for support. I want to learn to cook and clean the house for my dom while they are at work whenever we move in together though!
• As for personality, I'm super shy, kinda nerdy, and overly empathetic. I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm all about lovey-dovey romance stuff. I want to know how to make you feel happy and loved just as much as you would hopefully make me feel if we were together. I admittedly get attached really easily but I try not to be too clingy unless you explicitly tell me that you want me to be. Also touch is my love language! I absolutely LOVE being held and cuddled as much as possible!!!
• My interests include video games (I would LOVE to be able to play games with my future partner if they play on PC!), animals, and watching youtube/twitch. I also really want to some day get into cooking, D&D, crafty things, and maybe more something outdoors like hiking. I would also love to explore new hobbies with my potential partner!
• Smoke, drug, and alcohol free. It's fine if you drink on occasion or do something like edibles. I prefer that you don't smoke anything at all (I'm very sensitive to it) but as long as you're not doing it around me or indoors it should be fine.
• I generally don't get into politics much but I have liberal views about a lot of things. If you consider yourself conservative then we most likely won't mesh very well long term. I'm also not religious but if you are that's fine just don't try to push me into joining your religion.

NSFW Info:

• I'm a virgin. I've never even been kissed before. All my previous relationships have only ever been online.
• Exclusively a bottom and very submissive. Don't ask me to top, dom or switch.
• Be willing to go SUPER slow when it comes to actual sex. I do have what I consider a pretty high sex drive but my lack of experience will almost certainly make me very nervous the first few times.
• Vaginal penetration may not be possible for me. I really want to try but pain may make it impossible for me so don't be upset if it never happens. I'm fine with trying anal though if you're interested!
• I can't do sexual phone/video calls (I have very little privacy at home). I'm not a big fan of sending NSFW pictures because I feel like I suck at taking pictures in general but we can discuss it in the future. Just don't expect nudes without talking about it first.
• My biggest and most important kinks are CG/l and ABDL. I require that my dom is into CG/l and I would really like if they are into having me wear diapers as well but I'm not going to require it. If you match up with any of the other kinks I'm into also then that's just an added bonus!
• Being a little is more of a lifestyle for me than just a kink, really. Do not assume that my littlespace stays in the bedroom. It is a part of who I am every day to at least some degree. I can still be big and have serious conversations when they are needed of course.

Kinks: CG/l, ABDL (whether I wet and/or mess is up to whatever you are comfortable with so please tell me), age play, unpotty training, bathroom control, praise, petplay, fee use, soft/playful humiliation, somno, light bondage, creampies, breeding, being trained, 24/7 lifestyle, TPE

Soft Limits: (these can be discussed because many are situational) scat, watersports, pain (spanking is fine), blood, degradation, breath play, long term edging/denial, group sex

Hard Limits: (these are not to be pushed) vomit, misgendering/detrans, anything to do with cheating, blackmailing, weight related kinks

Anything else that is not a limit I'm probably willing to try at least once! It is very possible for me to discover other stuff that I might be into once I have a potential partner to help me experience new things.  

What I'm looking for:

• I have a slight preference for cis men but AMAB nonbinary people and trans women who don't want to have bottom surgery are more than welcome to reach out as well. I'm not interested in being sexually involved with someone with a vagina, sorry!
• Preferably in the 25 - 35 range but this is flexible.
• I like masc presenting people, tall people, dad bods, alt fashion styles, and someone strong enough to pick me up but these things are NOT required! I care about you as a person much more than your appearance. Real attraction stems from an emotional connection for me.
• Mostly interested in a monogamous relationship but I could be open to polyamory with the right people.
• Seeking a long-term commitment only. I want a real, loving, romantic relationship alongside the kink. I want to be your boyfriend as well as your little. The goal should be for us to be able to move in together someday in the future and build a life together forever. What I am NOT looking for is hookups, something short-term, or staying online only.
• Looking for a gentle daddy dom. I want to be with someone who wants to take care of me, guide me, teach me, and protect me. That being said, I still have the desire to be obedient and submit to someone so I need my dom to be able to provide structure and take control just as much as he can be sweet and loving with me.
• Our dynamic should be a part of our everyday life as much as it reasonably can be and not just in NSFW contexts. Of course I do understand that you can't always be in "daddy mode" all the time but I don't want someone who is a dom purely in the bedroom or when he gets horny. I want to feel owned even in vanilla life. Oh and feel free to baby me as often as you want to because I will always love it!
• I need someone who is very patient and understanding. There are a LOT of things in life I have no experience with ever doing, both SFW and NSFW. Be willing for our relationship to move slowly but I would also appreciate it if you did take initiate and gently guide me in the direction you want things to progress in.
• I would like someone who equally enjoys going out together on fun dates as well as staying indoors and cuddling up together on the couch to watch a movie since I would like a balance of both.
• Please be able to directly communicate your wants and needs to me. I have a very hard time picking up on subtle hints or "signs" so it's best to just tell me what you're trying to say in order to avoid frustration and confusion.
• Daily communication is a must! Even if it's just a quick check in text on busy days. I worry a lot very easily and need to know that you're okay and not trying to ignore me on purpose.
• Do not ghost me. If you want to stop talking to me for any reason at any point, tell me. Don't contact me if you plan to just disappear if you get bored. My last "daddy" did this to me after a nearly 1.5 year long relationship so it is VERY important that you at least give me a goodbye so I'm not left waiting on you.    #Thank you if you've actually read this far!

Send me a chat or message if you're interested in getting to know me! Your intro doesn't need to be a whole novel but try to give me more than just a word or two. Tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, and maybe even why you think we might be a good fit. Effort is appreciated! :)

If you have any questions about anything I'm an open book so feel free to ask! In fact I tend to be prone to oversharing without thinking. Sorry about that in advance haha

I look forward to hearing from you!