Hello!!

I am a cheeky 5' 10" Korean American living in Southern California (East of Los Angeles) and as a clearly short-in-supply introverted submissive that probably plays video games, I too am seeking a loving relationship with someone more in touch with their dominant side!

When I'm not cracking jokes or throwing sass, I am capable of engaging in those deep conversations that I keep seeing on everyone's dating profile as I get to know you better (or being a fool for your entertainment). Although I'm pretty reserved with strangers, it's not so much that I'm shy but I'd rather direct my energy to the people I know and love: it's not the food we eat, but the people we eat with!

I personally think I vibe far better in person, as my adorable antics can only do so much in written form, so #online only is off the table.

I do not smoke, do not do drugs, do not drink and cursed with no decent beard. Ideally, you are the same (drink is fine... and the beard too!). Job's stable and good enough to be independent, went to college for Art, and I'm decently fit and still working on it!

Ideally, YOU are:

⦁ Looking for a LTR -> Marriage -> Overlord (3rd part is not necessary, nor does it have to be 3rd!)

⦁ Around the same age as me or older (29-40ish)

⦁ In touch with your nerdy side at the very least (the touchier the better...ier)

⦁ Local: also somewhere in Southern California with the intent to meet up

And also, you're working on yourself and active somewhat! I'm doing it, ideally you are too!

Kink wise, I'm a submissive that enjoys various forms of control and worship but I must emphasize that I simply enjoy this kind of stuff, I don't absolutely crave it. It matters far more to me that I get my partner "off" than myself: is that weird?! So if we align, it's a big bonus!

Anyway, here's the kind of stuff that gets me brain acting unwise:

⦁ Forms of control: orgasm, clothing (or lack of, CFNM), servitude

⦁ Master/Owner type shenanigans like Collar Leash, anything that makes me feel like I am owned

⦁ Body Worship that makes even priests envious

⦁ Being sat on, which does include various key locations on the human face

⦁ Hugging, Cuddling, and Spooning of all kinds

Here's the kind of stuff I like thinking about:

⦁ Pegging (trained but never actually done it)

⦁ Light pain, beating, spanking, etc (less about the pain and more assertion of control)

⦁ Switching is an option, I naturally lean towards subby behaviors but I'm a pretty creative guy, I can manage.

Hard Limits:

⦁ There's a consistent theme of extreme sadism and privacy such as...

⦁ Poly

⦁ Public Humiliation and general public displays of BDSM

⦁ Extreme pain, CBT (unless you really want to hurt my feelings I'm a huge softie ;-;)

⦁ Gross Stuff, Smelly Stuff like Scat, Vomit, Blood, Piss, Cum Eating

Hobbies and Chill:

⦁ I dabble in writing, coding, drawing, modeling, animating, composing, designing, and more for video games as my main passion hobby and god damn it is a lot of work! I spend most of my non-chill hobby time on this alone.

⦁ I like to tackle cuisines from all over the world, occasionally plating food in a artsy way for fun! My art degree is getting use!! (cries)

⦁ I like hiking around in nature or trips through gardens. I'll sometimes smuggle a little notepad in my pocket to make drawings if I'm not out of breath and chugging water (I'm a thirsty bitch)

⦁ I have a soft spot for performing arts and circus acts, so I juggle and balance board. I often combine the two for some HILARIOUS but painful endings.

⦁ Dabbled in camping, fishing, archery, tennis, golf, kendo, concert violin in the past.

⦁ Chill time is typical homebody stuff: anime, movies, documentaries and history, random tutorials, doodling, creative writing, video games (generally with friends), napping, etc.

The kind of LTR I'm looking for really depends on my partner. I am a fan of FLR, but I don't require anything to dedicate everything I do in her name. So long as you are kind, working on yourself, and interested in a fool like me, we'll get along just fine whether its vanilla (which would be weird since its a BDSM personal), normal kinks, femdom heavy, or full blown FLR... but it's up to you!

One of my biggest fears in life is letting myself go, disappointing my partner. Whether she acknowledges it or not, I consider myself her property and I treat myself as such. As life got better for me, so too did my habits and I wish to continue the trend for both my sake but more importantly, hers!

Thank you for reading my slop!

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Oh, you're still here and interested? Send me a message, introduce your lovely self!