I am experienced dominant and am looking to bring some spice back into my life. I’m looking for a local female submissive who wants to play and explore. I’m experienced and love ropes and rigging but am open to most other kinks. Not looking to change my current situation or yours, so looking for something discreet. Ideally looking for a LTR that we can connect on other levels in addition to the bedroom.

I highly value your safety and pleasure as well as mine. I’m a firm believer in respecting boundaries and safe sane play. I treat my subs exactly as they want to be treated while we play(rougher or softer) but outside the scene I believe in treating them like a lady and a partner. I would love to provide you this safe judgement free space to fully express yourself even if BDSM has only a fantasy that you haven’t felt safe to pursue yet. I am eager to learn about you and hear your thoughts/turn ons and help you explore them.

About me: 52 WM. Gray in the temples and salt and pepper beard. Heavier side of a dad bod. I’m an educated professional with quick wit and easy laugh. I enjoy college sports, photography, great meals, books, and music. I don’t take myself too seriously and care deeply for the people in my life. I grew up in the country but I’m just as comfortable in a 5 star restaurant.

What I’m looking for: Prefer a nonsmoker. Intelligence with the ability to make me laugh. I’m looking for a kind heart with the ability and willingness to trust and share her inward self so I can as well. I want to build a real bond and hopefully a LTR. If we do this together I promise you a safe place for your heart and no judgement so you can truly be yourself. I’m looking for a lady in the streets and a ….. Well you know the rest. Major plus if you’re a rope bunny.

If this catches your eye reach out and tell me your favorite song and why it’s your favorite so I know you read this thing.