This is a very long post, sorry, but I'm just very specific with my wants/needs.

A little about me: I have been in the lifestyle for well over 10 years now and I'd like that to say that I'm a very experienced Dom who knows exactly what he wants.

I'm a 33 year old white male that is: 6 foot tall, dad bod, brown hair, green/brown eyes, wide body build. I love video games. I have two adorable Shorkies and very few friends. I'm an old soul and a homebody at heart but I can be easily persuaded to go out and do stuff as well. I work as a nurse (LPN).

I absolutely LOVE to cook. Name a dish and I guarantee I can already cook it, and if I can't, I'll learn it and cook it for you on the spot. :)

I'm excessively caring and a hopeless romantic, however I have been cheated on more times than I can count, which has turned me into a cheater and a man-whore. Now that my man-whoring phase is complete, I'm just out here looking for the real deal, the whole package. I'm an incredibly flexible Dominant, and you'll find that I'll soon understand you better than you understand yourself.

What I'm looking for in regards to your kinks:

• Cuckquean, first and foremost. I'm not looking to fuck your sister or your mother, I just want the option to have flings on the side and threesomes with you if the cake is open to that.
• Watersports (spit too) - drink it - all of it. Inside you, on you, everywhere.
• Degradation/Humiliation - especially when the cake is around (if she's open to that)
• Total Power Exchange - I want someone who lives the lifestyle, in and out of the bedroom.
• Heavy Impact/Manhandling - I'm extremely rough (when I feel like it) However blood is a hard limit for me. Lots of bruises though.
• Mental/Emotional manipulation - I absolutely love playing mind-games and gaslighting. :)
• Light bondage
• Cock worship - There is nothing I love more than an excessively long and sloppy blowjob. Lots of kissing the tip, licking, telling me how good I taste, etc.
• Obedience Play - Be willing to follow a routine, exercise, cleaning, etc. Be willing to assume specific positions when given a simple one-word or numbered commands (I say "two" and you immediately drop to your knees, mouth open, etc)
• Anal play - I very rarely want the third hole, but I like having the option. :)

What I'm looking for in regards to everything else:

• BBW/Thick - I'm not looking for a woman over 200lbs, but I don't want you to be skin and bones either, right in the middle, with a bit of chunk in the right places.
• Preferably white, but I will give any race a shot (I've been with all of them)
• Open to having kids - I still haven't decided if I want kids or not yet, but I'd like someone who doesn't mind one way or the other. (I also don't care if you already have kids, I'm fine with that).
• Intelligent, but purposefully stupid, just for me.
• Physically, emotionally, and mentally dependant on me (over time)
• Needy/Attention-seeking
• Ages 21-30 (some exceptions, but obviously 18 )
• Have a job/career that is somewhat decent, or a willingness to be a SAH subby.
• Dedication and willingness to put a LOT of effort into the relationship, as much as I do.
• Be willing to move to me, in connecticut.

As much as I hate to admit it, I'm probably just as needy as you are. I love sending texts 24/7 all day every day just as much as you do (hopefully). I love being cute out in public with you. I like going on cute little dates, falling asleep on eachother while we watch movies on the couch, cooking with you, etc etc.

I don't know what else to say, so I'll leave it with this - if this resonates with you, please don't hesitate to send me a message, I don't bite unless provoked. I look forward to hearing from you. :)