I am a Dom looking to start a relationship with a cis female sub. I want someone to fall in love with and ultimately become my life partner.

To me, love is spending time together. It’s the shared touches and little bids of connection that happen on a day to day basis. Similarly, romance isn’t just a candlelit dinner, it’s about making time to show my love. It’s hiking through Glacier National Park together and looking at the beautiful mountains. Jumping in a freezing cold lake together while we crack jokes and play in the water. Watching the sunset together. Holding hands as we stargaze and talk about our feelings and dreams for the future.

What do I look like? I'm tall (6'3"), male, white, and athletic. I have brown hair, I don't smoke, and I'm drug and disease free. Imagine Benedict Cumberbatch if he was really into hiking and card games.

I find kindness and a positive view on life attractive. This not only includes saying thank you to service staff at a restaurant, but also hoping for good to happen for other people. I read about all the advancements in artificial intelligence, and while I acknowledge their potential danger, they fill me with hope for what we could make as a society and for the potential things it enables individuals to create.

I love understanding how things work and how people think. I want to understand my partner’s problems and their dreams. I want us to talk about our beliefs and feelings as well as the reasons behind them. I want to talk about stories from our childhood and our deeper purposes in life, even if we disagree.

I like nothing more than seeing my partner’s reactions. I love her smile of content as we hug, her gasp when I spank her out of nowhere, and the fiery look in her eyes after a kiss. More than anything else though, I love when my partner enjoys herself, she’s enthusiastic, and she shows her devotion. When she smiles, I can’t stop myself from enjoying the moment as well. Her enthusiasm pulls me into the scene, fascinating me with her passions. Her devotion shows how much she cares for me, making me feel special.

I like being dominant in the bedroom. Grabbing her and throwing her onto the bed. Whispering in her ear to kneel. Teasing her relentlessly until she cums again and again, or repeatedly stopping right before she cums. Tying her up, slapping her face, and slowly bringing up the intensity until she’s boiling. Cuddling her after. Getting us both water. Holding her close until we return to normalcy.

I also enjoy vanilla sex. A passionate make out session. Holding her close as I slowly penetrate her. It provides a different flavor of intimacy.

Outside the bedroom, I like acting as equals. Her opinions, thoughts, emotions, and needs have the same value that mine do. Chores and other responsibilities should be split equally, whether that's switching whose turn it is to do the dishes or setting one person to do dishes and the other to cook. I want both of us to support each other, to encourage each other to pursue our goals and dreams. I like being my partner’s rock. Someone who is there for her at all times, who she can trust will listen to her without judgment.

I am looking for something that is in-person in Utah. As such, I'd like to meet in a public place within a couple weeks of starting to chat.

If you are interested, please send me a message describing yourself and what about my post appealed to you the most.