SERIOUS DMs only -- dont just jump into dicks and trying to dom and get together and stuff. chat first, relationships after!

really hoping this helps me find someone! this is my first post so sorry if anything seems weird!

hello! my name is Nico, and im a 19 y/o switch with some experience for my age (which i can talk about more in chat). i currently only have experience online, but would like to potentially explore IRL after some time online if you live nearby. i also have a boyfriend (my perfect kitty!) so you would need to be okay with me being polyamorous. were not looking for a unicorn (im the only one looking for any partners), so please dont ask to get with him too, and any attempts at dominating him or majorly impacting our relationship will be a dealbreaker

outside of sexy stuff, i love art ^{(if you mention art, I will shove my OCs in your face, its not a choice}), written rp, videogames ^{(mainly Pressure, Regretevator, Undertale, Minecraft and Stardew Valley}), some cartoons ^{(Hazbin Hotel Helluva Boss, The Amazing Digital Circus}), and a little cosplay and future fursuiting. i would love someone that i can chat with these about! ^{bonus points if you can get me into a good play-by-post DnD group whos open to new players :3.} also while talking with my boyfriend, he called me "cute and funny and hot and caring" and told me to add that to this post, so here it is! i also have depression, social generalized anxiety, gender dysphoria and inattentive ADHD

as for the kinky stuff, im mostly super big into petplay, and I'm looking for a good and sweet handler with some experience. i can also be quite a brat, and am into praise and rewards, light punishments, and want to explore irl bondage, caging, petplay and cuddles >:3 ^{(okay, ive cuddled people irl, but i want more cuddles}). i also redid my BDSM test just today, so i can send that in chat. my tastes tend to shift over time but i tend to always be into petplay and soft dominants

and for limits, thats mainly bathroom stuff, ageplay/agere, beastiality, and fauxcest, though outside of that im generally open to exploring or doing things just for you! i also dont send lots of pics (specifically face and sexy pics) and dont like orgasming (its only good to me for a little, then i get too dysphoric and its really not worth it for me lmao). i just go until im tired or youre done instead!

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^{im posting this right before getting ready for work, but go ahead and DM me and we can chat once im back! if youre reading this im either at work or getting ready for work -- ill delete this note when im home}