Heyho everyone!

I am looking for fun connections without any immediate expectations and just seeing how things develope from that. I made the experience that the best things happen if you don't force any direction and just talk without any pressure. If we just talk for a day about interesting things thats fine, if we become good friends who share kink as a "hobby" thats great, if we randomly happen to be perfect matches that'd be really lucky, but if that doesn't happen I won't count this as a failure and hope you won't either.

For kinks I'm a sadist with 13 years of experience. My greatest turn-on are the reactions I get though, the feeling that I get to control what sensations you go through, so extreme pain is not necessary. Emotionally I'm starting out soft and caring, but can be cruel too there once I can trust you to be able to take it. For specific kinks I'm quite versatile, have tried many things and generally love the journey of exploring how our unique dynamic developes and plays out. Core kinks include painplay, orgasm control, praise, humiliation, dd/l, petplay, slave training, brattaming, bondage and cnc. Limits are just scat and causing permanent harm. I practise RACK and highly value communication and care before, during and after every session.

Personality wise I'd describe myself as calm, nonjudgemental and introverted but confident. I'm very talkative with people I find sympathetic, love sharing random facts. I work as a researcher and am pretty nerdy. Love science, math, history, politics, philosophy, mythology, music, literature and kinda enjoy hearing about any passion you have! I like hiking and gardening, love animals and being in nature.

I am mostly looking for a person who is curious and passionate. Happy to talk to anyone, and open to become attached to anyone who just isn't closeminded or hateful.

Hope to hear from you! Please write a little bit about yourself or ask questions as a conversation starter