Dealbreakers/non-negotiables:

-Must be reasonably local- within about a three hours' drive.

-My short term goal is to date traditionally and have a blast doing it. My long term goal is to be monogamously married with kids within 3-5 years. I expect that you're seeking something similar.

-I am not interested in play partners/sexting/hookups/poly/ENM/etc.

-Must be willing to call and talk on a regular basis and have a goal to begin seeing each other in person ASAP- texting is the WORST.

A bit about me:

I'm 5'0, chubby, a teacher, and love me some good snuggles. I am a Christian leaning on the liberal side and love my faith but am not pressed about my partner being Christian as well. I adore cute video games, enjoy a good walk or hike, and crave community. I have a goofy cackle of a laugh and I am absolutely a chaos goblin deep down inside- I strive to be God's silliest goose. My ultimate goal is to be an excellent wife and sub who can just love on my family in every way.

I'm looking for a partner who loves some silliness and banter and sass as well as a soft, sweet, good girl. You, ideally, understand the importance of letting a relationship and D/s unfold naturally with time, love, and trust. You are at the point in your life where you're looking to settle down, have a cute adoring wife, and put some babies in said wife. You're a softer dom who doesn't mind a pillow princess or a hint of sadism in play (see kinks). In an ideal world, our relationship would be a strong blend of domestic discipline, ddlg, and traditional gender roles.

Major kinks include ddlg (both sexual and nonsexual) CNC play (huge for me), breeding, light pain play, edging/orgasm denial, anal training, soft humiliation play, and sensory play. I would like to incorporate domestic discipline into my relationship. Again, I'm a bit of a pillow princess- you have been warned.

Hard no's include scat, blood, permanent marking, yell-y doms, and a huge one is choking/breathplay. I love ddlg but diapers are a nope.

If you're interested and meet the criteria at the top, please message and include your age and location!