I'm a 44-year-old male Dominant with a soft, caring, and gentle Daddy Dom approach. For a long time, I tried to suppress this side of myself—tried to bury it deep and pretend it didn’t exist. But we all know that never really works. This is part of who I am.

I’m married with a family, though they don’t know about this side of me, my wife brushes aside the conversation anytime it turns towards sex and needs. Physically, I’m tall, broad-shouldered, with a beard and a bit of a dad bod now. I was once a national-level athlete, and while time has changed me, I’ve been told I’m very attractive. You’d likely notice me if we passed on the street—but never suspect my secret side.

This isn’t my first time venturing down this path. I’ve been exploring online for a couple of years, learning more about myself along the way. Through this, I’ve experienced just how real and powerful a connection like this can be—the emotions, excitement, fulfillment, and sense of belonging. Of course, that also means I’ve felt the heartbreak that sometimes comes with it. I’m happy to discuss as much or as little of those experiences as you’d like. If this is your first time stepping into this world, that’s okay too—I enjoy guiding and teaching as well.

You’re the confident, beautiful woman—the mother next door, the badass who moves mountains for her family, effortlessly juggling responsibilities while making it all look easy. But inside, you feel unfulfilled—something is missing. You long to feel seen, understood. You know the weight of keeping up appearances, the pressure of being a mom, a partner, and a 'proper' member of society. Yet deep down, there’s an itch you can’t ignore—one that needs to be scratched before it drives you mad.

Maybe, just maybe, both you and your partner share a secret longing—one that doesn’t fit neatly into the roles the world expects of you. One that you’d both like to explore together. That tension, that push and pull between who you are and who you're supposed to be. A sub couple is something I’ve always been fascinated by.

I know what it’s like to go through life unable to share your authentic self with those around you. I want to connect with someone who understands that feeling—someone who also needs to be truly seen. I want to share both the vanilla and the kinky sides of life; to find a best friend I can simply be "me" with, without fear or judgment. My mind constantly shifts between everyday life and kink, and I want a partner to share that journey with. I offer a safe, judgment-free space where we can talk openly, explore freely, and build a deep connection over time. I’m not in a hurry, and I’m not looking for anything short-term—I’m in this for the long haul.

Kink-wise, I’m into orgasm control, edging, denial, stretching, and insertions, but at heart, I’m a true kinkster and adventurer. Lately, I’ve been intrigued by exploring objectification, humiliation, and psychological play—finding ways to weave them into my naturally caring, protective Daddy Dom style. I want to cherish and treasure my submissive as a prized possession, balancing sexuality, kink, and objectification with deep care and affection. I’m open-minded and eager to explore, as long as it’s safe, sane, and consensual.

I have no expectations from anyone who might reach out—I know how difficult it can be to take that first step and put yourself out there. All I promise is good, honest communication in a safe space, free of judgment. Let’s talk, get to know each other, and see where things might naturally lead. If you’re interested in building something meaningful and exploring this dynamic together, let’s chat—I don’t bite (unless you ask nicely).