PLEASE be 31-45. I will NOT go younger! It will make the dynamic feel weird for ME.

Hi! To begin- PLEASE do not message me using nicknames. No, I am not your princess. I am not your sweetie or your baby or whatever nickname you want to use. It's creepy, and I will block you. I want to get to know you beyond kink. You're a whole person...and so am I!

What I am looking for in a caretaker/daddy:

✅️ Shares my values and political stance. I am progressive and pro-choice. I'm very spirtual- I would love if you were, too. I am not goth or alty myself (beyond my septum piercing), but I would love if you were.

✅️A bit heavier on the caretaker side. What I mean by this is- you care whether I remember to pack a lunch (vs drinking a redbull for breakfast/lunch (today i had sweetarts for lunch 🫢)…depends on when I drink it). You are how late I stay up. You care if someone hurts my feelings. 

✅️ Is kind and patient. I do not want someone who is a sadist. I prefer someone who is on the softer side. Sometimes, I need a hug, not a spanking. I want guidance without the harshness. I'm sensitive, so, harshness isn't always necessary.

✅️ Does NOT want kids…and likes dogs and will let my ween sleep in bed. 

✅️ Can provide structure and routine. Those are two important things for me. Please be able to provide it without being overly controlling. That doesn't mean to punishments…but it does mean patience. 

✅️ Has a reading and writing level above the 4th grade. Pleaaaase be able to write. 

✅️ Doesn't mind that I don't drive yet. Maybe you can teach me!

✅️ Believes this isn't only sexual. I want this to be dynamic of the relationship. I want a few steps below tpe. I don't wanna ask to go pee, but I still want you to have control. I want to do crafts together and bake together. We can make friendship bracelets (though it would be a daddy and me bracelet).

✅️ Is a good cuddler.

I enjoy voice calls quiiiite a bit. It's a great way to get to know each other. 😛 It's also a great way to see if I'm too annoying for you. Please don't be the type who wants to stay on reddit forever.

My interests:

1. Traveling
2. Naps
3. Muuuusic- from The Smiths to Dayseeker... and the occasional Madona.
4. Boba! I like going to the boba shop in town and trying different drinks. I don't like the boba pearls because of the texture... but occasionally, I'll get the brown sugar milk tea with them. It's not too bad then. I usually like the strawberry matcha latte.
5. My dog - she's my favorite. She yells at people (to include small children). All weens do it, though! She doesn't bite...or hasn't yet.
6. Studio Ghibli movies
7. Daddy 🥰

I want to specify that I'm not so much into ageplay. My whole personality and me is little. I'm little at 4'11. I'm immature as hell. I still watch cartoons for comfort, like spongebob and sometimes Arthur. I want to be taken care of and allowed to delve into this more. Something I've always wanted to do is build a giant blanket fort and have a cuddle nest inside. I want to be read to. I want to be cared for...hence the heavy caretaker relationship. I want a daddy who I can color with and have fun tea parties with...but I also want ro travel.and play video games and watch The Office. It's allll about balance!

I'm a 31yr old assistant teacher. I'm in charge of people all freaking day. I want someone to be in control of ME. I want someone to take care of ME. I want ro be able to have times of no responsibilities. I wanna let go of that... relinquish my power and let daddy take care of me and be in control.

Trust and communication are a MUST HAVE.  I want to have conversations that are effortless and just happen naturally. I want to stay up late talking and wake up sleepy but without regret. I want to feel excited when I see a text from you. Not only that, but I want someone to feel excited when they receive one from me. I want someone to have the same excitement when they think about me. I want someone who will help me get out of my comfort zone and into this realm. I want someone who has experience with being a daddy.

I want us both to feel safe enough to be our authentic selves... the good and the bad (nobody is perfect). I want to feel safe around you. I want my daddy to be my protector.  

Here are kinks I believe I have (not experienced in this): 1. Bondage (tie me up bit please don't leave me tied to the bed). 2. Orgasm control/edging 3. Praise (not really into degradation...idc if it's a big part of bdsm. I could do a tiny bit, but don't make me cry) 4. Mexican food and aftercare (cuddle me and take me to get Mexican) 5. Occasional full-blown tpe (like a weekend of it and maybe we can make it all the time if we love it). 6. When people know the difference between your and you're and they're/their/there...and doesn't get breathe and breath confused 🤨 7. Other things I'm sure

My NOs:

1. Anything illegal
2. Anything public
3. Cum play (NASTY)
4. Anything non-consensual (that includes weenie pics- only weenie you'll see from me is a picture of my weenie dog and I expect the same from you without my consent).
5. Obviously things like gore, scat, kids, animals...anythinf involving other people.