Hi there you sexy kinksters,

Has Hinge left you feeling unhinged? Don't see what all the buzz is about Bumble? Feeld feeling fallow? I know I've felt that way swiping away on the apps and thus... you and I have found ourselves here.

We both want something kinky in our relationship, but maybe not quite a kink relationship. We both have a high drive and love exploring with our partner but we both know we're individuals with interests beyond the bedroom. We both value communication and honesty while knowing that consent and safety are bedrocks of any bed rocking. And we both can appreciate a well timed dad joke.

Maybe the best way to describe it is a Hinge relationship with Feeld dynamics? But we both know it's more than that. It's swapping memes back and forth while doing things to each other that will make our best friends blush. It's serving pancakes in bed while you're still tied to the bed frame. It's arguing over the best dive bars in Brooklyn while engaging in a little exhibition on the way home from your favorite bar. It's doing the crossword and turning your ass pink from the spankings. It's a good morning text and your phone knowing to automatically capitalize Daddy. It's flowers, collars, dates, and desires.

So who am I? The basics facts are that I'm 37, 6'2", live in Brooklyn, and I rock a well kept beard. I've got a new career that I love (after spending nearly a decade in publishing), I'm a regular at my gym (the person at the counter has even started knowing my smoothie order), and I've done therapy (gotta get the noggin straight). Lately I've really been into meditating and all the games for the NYT but feel comfortable chatting with anyone from the chronically online to sports fanatics to literary snobs.

If you're looking for someone to go to Hacienda with one weekend, your cousin's wedding the next, and then a random comedy show in Brooklyn in between, tell me a little about yourself and your favorite emoji.

xo