I'm looking for someone very specific. A married, mature, intelligent woman that is curious about exploring her submissive side, but also too shy and/or too smart to post on her own. Is it you? You feel sexually unsatisfied or neglected at home. You are not necessarily looking to cheat or change your day to day life, but you are here scanning Reddit out of curiosity, or just looking for some form of arousal. And giving up some form of control is something you are curious about, or crave, or need. You have a submissive side, and you are looking for something safe as an outlet to explore these feelings.

In your career, you are accomplished and successful and a boss. You are married, and you run everything in your household. You spend all day bossing people around and making all the decisions. But you are tired of being in charge and in control of everything in your personal life and job.

For me, this fills a void and a need that I do not get at home. Life is very vanilla. Vanilla is OK, but sometimes I need some spice, and this is my way of going to the spice rack. I’m married, dominant, and fit. I am older but look, feel and act much younger than my age, Interested in any form of control, but my specific interest is orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging and teasing.

I am only looking to correspond online, by direct message or email. Maybe eventually voice if we really connect. I would want this to be on-going, and I would only do this with one person. Getting to know you, your likes, your dislikes, your limits... all off that is critical to build this to the intensity you want and need.

My interest goes beyond filthy, dirty chat. Of course, that is part of it! But so is witty banter, friendship, and support. I know this can be an arousing, intense, and satisfying way to explore this for the right person in the wrong circumstance. Definitely get in touch if you immediately connect with anything I wrote here, or even if you just find yourself curious or intrigued!