Hey there,

If you're tired of vanilla and seeking something more, keep reading. I'm a sapiosexual Dom with a playful side and a sharp mind, looking for a special submissive in the Netherlands (or an expat) who appreciates a genuine connection.

I'm not your typical Dom. I'm experienced, sensitive, and have a knack for understanding your needs even before you voice them. You'd be with someone that can offer intellectual stimulation and depth, empathy, and the ability to offer emotional support, even outside of the dynamic. I'm looking for a connection that goes beyond just the physical – I want someone who can engage in deep conversations, is open-minded, and has a naughty side that's just waiting to be explored. I have an intelligent mind, and enjoy people with that quality as well, to explore and find depth both emotionally and mentally.

Sexually, I'm looking for someone who embraces submission and finds pleasure in fulfilling my needs. The idea of you being “always ready” excites me. I want a sub who can be a giver and can be an enthusiastic giver if the mood strikes, finding joy in that level of surrender while knowing I will always take her pleasure into consideration as well, creating a safe environment for us both. You are the center of this dynamic, and your pleasure is as important as mine. You should be excited to surrender to my desires and to explore the depths of intimacy and power together. I have strong paternal instincts and am not afraid to take charge.

Outside the bedroom, I envision a connection built on trust, mutual respect, and genuine friendship. I’d like for you to be my confidant, a friend and someone I can trust, and that you share your life with me and feel comfortable communicating your needs, desires and feelings. This dynamic is something I want us both to cherish, not just a casual encounter. Communication is key for me. I enjoy someone that is capable of a back and forth flow, without being awkward or requiring me to do all the talking.

What I need from you: you should be intelligent, self-assured outside of the bedroom, and someone who appreciates a deeper connection, rather than just focusing on the physical. I'm not looking for a "sexual butterfly". I need you to be honest, not afraid to delve deep into conversations, not afraid of getting dirty when the time comes, be willing to explore power exchange, be honest about your limits and your kinks, and value communication.

Dealbreakers: Dishonest people, people that submit too fast, people that can't communicate, and that have no self care. I'm not interested in people that are projecting their own fantasies onto this dynamic. I value emotional stability, and I'm seeking someone who is grounded, self-aware and balanced. People that are not able to maintain healthy dynamics are not a good fit for me. I want someone who appreciates self-care, both physical and mental.

If you're intrigued, send me a message and let's see if we connect.

Looking forward to hearing from you.