Looking for a dom leaning switch for an online dynamic, with the possibility of LDR and meeting irl for the right person (open to traveling)

Here is a picture of me since physical attraction is important:

https://imgur.com/a/TV8MDz4

I will note that my favorite part of myself is my face, so I am at a disadvantage here 😩 I can share my face if I like your message (read to the bottom for tips on what a good message looks like)

Me

I’ve been described as cute with a big personality. I’ve been told I’m direct and it can come across as intimidating, but I think it’s how I’ve managed to tough it out in the very male dominated engineering field. My feminity is something that’s come at the cost of my professional pursuits, so it’s been something I’ve been getting back in touch with recently. I find joy in spending time with friends and family, and I hope to find someone with similar values

I enjoy making things with my hands, which translates to many of my hobbies (sewing, sculpting, gardening). I have 646 hours in sid meiers civ 5 and no where close in any other game. Once I like something, I reallllly like it. I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals recently and joining friends for board games

While I’m very outwardly an extroverted, strong person, I can be quite shy/embarassed opening up to someone sexually (so please don’t make things sexual early on, I’ll run away 😶). More so when the other person is in control and I’m subbing

As a sub, I basically like it all. I have a high pain tolerance, so I’ve yet to find my limit there. I love finding bruises and marks later. I definitely fell into the overachiever-to-praise-kink pipeline (I was trained to be rewarded with gold stars. WTF am I supposed to do now???)

I have more experience being dominant in my day to day, so that’s why I think I have some domme tendencies. It’s fun to take my frustrations out on grown men and slap em around until they submit or put me in my place

As a domme, I like edging, teasing, rigging, and orgasm control. I like the idea of putting a cute collar on a big, tough man and walk him around. Some light degradation is fun as well. I’m open to exploring more and seeing what else I like

I’m not into sph, feminization, sissificion, caging, or raceplay

You

I love a switch who can take it and dish it harder :) or a strong Daddy Dom who can handle my bratty ass

I was born and raised in the States, from a south Asian immigrant family. Given my background, I’ve always been drawn to people from different cultures than mine (American)

There’s just something about tall skinny white boys that I, for some reason, cannot stay away from. Especiallyyyy if you’re Dutch/Danish ;) Maybe because I’m short?

Having your shit together is sexy, tell me about your 9-5 and how you keep yourself busy after work :) I don’t think I’d go younger than 21, so I would consider older college students, but you better be awfully cute

I’ve tried it, but polyamory and ENM is not for me. So if you’re into that or are a couple, I’m sadly not interested (I do enjoy group play, just with someone who’s all mine)

I hope that wasn’t too much text but I’m trying to better filter the 200 messages I’ll receive 😭

To put yourself at the top of the queue, please message me and introduce yourself (age, height), tell me where you’re from, what you do, your aspirations, hobbies, and what interested you in my post (I would like to stress that I’m not interested in sexting or being dominated immediately). Please also send some photos along with your message (if I haven’t accepted your message request, you can’t send photos but you can include an imgur link in your message). If you can’t share photos with your face, I will likely not be interested. I will share mine back if I’m interested!

Let’s connect like normal people first and see where that takes us ☺️