About me

Physical information

https://imgur.com/a/this-is-me-some-of-pets-4jjusys

The above link is a good way to look at myself, but to provide a text description of myself would probably be the following. I stand at about 5’7.5’’ (Five feet, seven and a half inches) With brown hair and brown eyes. And I know I’m unspeakably handsome.

I probably weigh closer to one hundred pounds now and have a sort of lean fit going on with myself. I have at least some muscle definition on my arms and legs, my core could probably be better though.

I have been working out and trying and getting stronger, mostly so I won’t struggle as much at work when handling animals!

My hobbies and passions

These day’s I do a number of hobbies, like shooting, archery (PS. You can see my compound bow in the imgur link), and some other outdoorsy stuff like fishing and hiking.

I am also a very big fan of video games and love the 4x game genre specifically stellaris! And my second biggest love is turning based and real time strategy games. So much so that I am learning how to make my own RTS game in Godot!

I am also an artist, drawing both on traditional mediums like pen and paper, and also digital art using my own tablet. I tended to draw anthropomorphic characters early on, though I have branched out to a few different things, with landscapes recently being added to my list of artwork. (ps. I’ll draw you too if you ask nicely)

I am very passionate about my work, which is veterinary medicine, I love learning about the history of veterinary care, and all the techniques and everything that goes into it. As well as the pharmacology and anatomy of animals. And I use this passion and drive to learn as much as I can, so I can become a vet technician instead of what I am doing now.

Currently I am a veterinary assistant at my local animal Emergency hospital, and I am using this to learn as much as I can about my desired field which is vet technician. And as such I am saving up money to go to vet tech school to fulfill that dream! Ask me about some fun stories and I’ll tell you them! I do work twelve-hour shifts, Thursday to Saturday, but I will still check in and talk on my lunches.

About you

What I am looking for

• Age range: Ideally, you’d be between 24~28 years old, the lowest I will go is 20 years old, the absolute maximum I will go is 32 years old.
• Location: Preferably somewhere in the US, ideally close enough to Colorado to be able to visit me or for me to visit you. I won’t do anywhere else because Time zones make communication hard. I don’t want to send you a good morning text while you’re going to sleep.
• Body type / height / weight: Your height can be anywhere between 5’1’’ to 6’2’’ if you are shorter than me I can rest my head on yours and drive you nuts! If your taller then me well… I guess we will figure that out together because I haven’t had that happen yet.
• I am not overly concerned about weight; I learned long ago never to judge weight when I myself am Anorexic. Medium to curvy bodies are appreciated and loved by me!
• Personality traits: Someone sweet like honey, and who is a total nerd. I also want someone who is honest and can communicate their feelings. Lastly and probably the best, they aren’t afraid to be silly and crazy with me. I want you to be yourself… You’re a human being, you deserve to be treated as such, and you shouldn’t have to change yourself to be with me.
• Physical traits: I’m attracted to longer hair, and I would go crazy if you dye your hair! Blue or Green eyes are my favorite eye colors. 
• This is a strictly monogamous relationship. No sharing!
• Looking for a long term and FLR relationship!
• Also you don't mind occasionally having to brat tame.
• Limits can be found on pinned post same with kinks.

So, what does FLR and Femdom mean to me actually?

Stepping back from the kink, stepping away from all the male gaze side of things for femdom and FLR.

To me at a very base point, FLR is about trusting my partner to follow her in the relationship and try my best to meet her needs and wants as a human being. To kind of elaborate on this idea, I don’t see it as an excuse to throw all responsibility at the feet of my partner, nor do I see it as them doing heavy lifting. I see it as they take the lead, but I still have to contribute and show them that I am still dedicated and present in the relationship. Be it with flowers, cooking a nice meal, or even just figuring out what they like romantically. And above all, being there when they need me.

The femdom side is a lot harder for me to pin down exactly what I like about it. If my own writing and self-reflection has taught me anything, it’s that connection, and the feeling of being cared for. And making my domme feel cared for as well, much like what I said above romantically, and in the bedroom. Leading to the next point.

The Dynamic and Relationship

My dream dynamic is a gentle caretaker kind of dynamic. Built around praise for things both little and big, with affirmations and rewards. With big scoops of pet play as well. I want nothing more honest than being your perfect pet, who sometimes gets playfully testy, but for the most part helps serve and take care of you! I really like the mommy domme architype and liked the idea of calling my partner this as well. All of this is up for negotiation, because dreams are different from reality, I just wanted to provide a picture of how it would look.

For the relationship my ideal relationship is equal parts kink and vanilla. Where all the normal couple things happen, like dedicated date nights, exchanges of gifts and flowers, and the wonderful nicknames that come with. How Kink would be blended in is that you would be my domme, and in private I would acknowledge you as such and I likewise, would be your sub.

The relationship would be founded on communication, and at least while we are online/ Long distance, texts and calls at night, with a video call for our date nights, would probably be our norm until we move into in person stuff!

The end! and next steps!

So go ahead and reach out to me! I’d love to chat and see if we mesh. Use the word Amazed in the start of your message, and because I provided pictures here, I would like some in return!