What I'm Looking For

I have fully embraced my darkness. Now I just want someone to explore it with. I want someone to take by the hand (or by the leash) and step into the darkness with, and to see just how delightfully depraved we can get. I want a canvas for my debauchery so that I can see how deep it really goes. If you think you might be that person, read on.

Who I Am

I'm a professional with a fancy degree from a fancy school who works too much trying to make sure I leave the world just a little bit better than how I found it. I have a demanding but incredibly rewarding job, and I just finished a particularly intense work assignment -- so now I'm looking to relax the best way I know of, with a delightfully kinky companion to talk with and torment in all the best ways.

When I'm not working or browsing reddit personals, I enjoy staying active, going to movies, reading books, the occasional video game -- basically all of your standard activities. I also like to cook when I have the time, and love trying different restaurants and food. I'm a big sports fan, especially soccer and football, but I promise I won't judge if you're not. If you're curious, I'm 5'11, with a lean athletic build, black hair, and dark brown eyes. I'm happy to swap pictures if you'd like.

What I'm Into

For me, this comes down to power, and connection. I love every aspect of the power exchange. The control is arousing, but it also drives me - I need the responsibility to enhance your life, because it enhances mine as well. I also love the connection that comes from that control. I want your entire being to be wrapped up in mine, for us to know each other in ways that only a relationship like this can provide and care for each other in ways that far surpass any vanilla connection. Those two things are at the center of my kinks and my ideal lifestyle

The breadth of my kinks is frankly astonishing, and I even surprise myself with some of the things that don't make me run away screaming, but my favorites will always be, in no particular order: edging orgasm denial/control, bondage, choking and other breath play, TPE, and varying degrees of humiliation and degradation.

I tend to be the type of Dominant who derives no small amount of pleasure from the pleasure of my submissive. I find it immensely enjoyable to learn what turns my submissive on and which buttons get what reaction, so that I can fully manipulate them for our mutual enjoyment. I enjoy power and control tremendously, but I'm also not having fun unless we're both having fun.

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I don't want to take up too much of your time, so I'll wrap this up for now. I appreciate this a little bit amorphous, but hopefully some element of it sparks your curiosity (or something else inside you). If you're interested shoot me a message and let's talk. Looking forward to meeting you!