Hi everyone reading this!

I hope you’re healthy and doing well during these rather turbulent times. What a insane start to the year it has been...

These days are sure tough when you look at the news... But maybe we can distract and warm each other’s with words, smiles and puns? (At least at first!). Share old memories and create new ones together!

I haven't been on reddit for long but I am already very tired of people’s behavior on this site, but I figured before I disappear I might make a last ditch effort in a sub that actually knows a thing or two about BDSM (the roleplay subs didn't.... I know shocking) since I haven’t found yet exactly what I’m looking for... I am simply looking for a connection, as I do absolutely miss and crave the dynamic. The warm and fuzzy feeling whenever a notification pops up. Glued to my phone and writing paragraph after paragraph to a special person.

I have been brought into the lifestyle almost 8 years ago by an older woman I was the bull for in a healthy hotwife dynamic, who made sure I’ll always be respectful at first. Sadly, it seems the scene has turned inside out for a while and there’s just mostly abusive men in disguise as fake doms, or women wanting to try cause it’s the new sexual trend.

I do believe that some of us are serious with it, as this lifestyle is part of what they are. So, well...I’ll let you know a bit about me, so you can see if we’re a decent match! If not I'll still be happy to chat and share our experiences.

Vanilla me:

I‘m ambitious, creative, can play the violin, talkative, absolute sci-fi and fantasy movie geek, animal lover (especially dogs... I own one myself!). I do love astronomy, history and writing. I speak 2 languages fluently, 2 more I have some rough skills that I try to hone. I am a a decent cook that currently experiments and tries to broaden his horizon! I am possibly the most patient person you'll ever meet (my friends often times compare to a monk), open minded and very much an open book. Ask away everything you have in mind! I do think I am also quite educated considering I am about to finish my bachelors this summer. I am also polite and on the liberal side. I value honesty and communication since these things tend to lose its worth nowadays. I prefer being straightforward and tell what’s on my chest than just keeping it to myself, ending up in misunderstandings. I can be emotional when life gets to much and acknowledge these things instead of bottling it up. Most importantly though: I absolutely got my shit together.

Physical me:

I know it’s also an important thing so I’ll try to sum up (but will gladly swap a pic to verify): I am tall (185cm), fit/toned, and heard a lot that I’m very attractive too from partners and one time flings in the past. I have brown eyes. And a very thick german accent in every other language than my own...

Kinky me:

I am a Dominant, 100%. In the Lifestyle for almost 8 years, I’ve been brought in it by an older experienced woman. So let’s make it short: I’ll be always respectful at first and polite. My list of kinks is very long, my main focus and fetishes would be : Everything within TPE, Dirty Talk, light impact play, oral fixation, orgasm control... and many many more. But thats a topic we can discuss later on. I want to attract with my personality not with what makes my member rock hard. limits: no scat, no blood, no incest, no animals, no underage... I think you get the idea

I’d ideally love to chat with a fellow open minded and talkative person. Age and distance don’t matter to me: I am very careful I don’t intend to meet right away, at least until I finished my studies and can concentrate on a new chapter in my life.

I hope I’ll be reading soon from you! Meanwhile if you made it until here: thank you for reading this essay (lol)!

Take care, stay safe and stay kinky!