So, I'm throwing myself in the deep end here and throwing caution to the wind with this post.

So what am I looking for? Ultimately, I'm looking for someone to make a connection with, and not a one tome thing. At the moment I'm single, due to a busy schedule (and probably truth be told some body confidence issues) but I'm craving a 1.1 connection for those intimate moments and someone to explore my sexually submissive side with in an online setting.

Like many, for me sexual intimacy is heightened when there is a foundation that goes beyond the sexy times. Don't worry I'm not looking for someone to put a ring on it, but would love to meet someone who can hold a conversation, is open to sharing more about themselves, their interest and hobbies as well as loving a flirt and dirty talk. I'm not asking for much, surely? Haha.

I love music, movies, history, sport and enjoy reading and travelling and could talk for hours about music and movies, i'm basicslly a nerd, so bonus if that's what floats your boat 😁.

Kink wise, I love nipple play (mouth, fingers, teeth, clamps etc), dirty talk(does it for me in such a big way), spanking, edging, toys, oral (giving and receiving), i like rough sex but not masochism. I definitely have a praise kink going on too haha.

I would say I'm pretty open to trying most things, some limits for me are standard anything illegal, scat, degradation/humiliation. Also please no one who is in a relationship.

Looks wise im 5ft 6, brown hair, and green eyes. full disclosure I'm a bbw (and probably on the heavier end of that scale). I know some people find my body type attractive or are indifferent, whilst for many others it's not their vibe at all, and if you fall into the latter thats something i totally understand and respect. That being said with my body comes big boobs if that's your thing haha

In terms of what I find most attractive, I don't really have a type, although I tend to like tallerr guys (but certainly not a deal breaker) and i'm a sucker for a beard, to the point I would pet you all night if I could haha. Honesty and open communication are also attractive to me too, as well as someone who doesnt take themselves too seriously.

Happy to chat with people from any location, although as a heads up I'm in Europe. I also prefer guys who are between 30 and 49.

So if you happen to be a Soft Dom or Pleasure Dom and any of the above is appealing, please reach out, including your age, location, and favourite movie or band 😁.