Hello there,

You can call me Al (I bet that reference goes over a lot of heads depending on what sub this has been posted in) and I’m 38 years fun. I’m located in Essex and a short drive from London.

I’m not gonna bullshit you on my looks. I’m not anyone to swoon over. I’m 6ft tall, have a beefy build, bearded and bald.

I am a rugged, gritty bear of a man so make sure that’s your type before you message me. I’m beyond frustrated at the amount of times I’ve been blocked recently after sharing pics because it seems people can’t read descriptions properly.

I am in an open relationship.

Onto the fun part. My kinks revolve mostly around extreme humiliation and degradation, public exhibitionism and voyeurism, watersports, gagging and vomit, TPE, CNC, binding and rope play and pain infliction amongst others. I expect many of them fall into limits but that can be discussed further along.

Aftercare is crucial to me. While I enjoy breaking my partner, it’s equally important to ensure that they’re looked after both emotionally and physically after play sessions.

I’m a huge nerd, passionate about graphic novels, science fiction, fantasy, video games, and all aspects of pop culture.

I have a wickedly dark, deadpan, and sarcastic sense of humor.

Depressed as fuck.

What I’m Looking For

A cis-gender woman with whom I can connect emotionally and share similar vanilla interests. While it’s fun to imagine a 24/7 dynamic, work, studies, social commitments, and life in general get in the way.

I need to find a clingy, attentive partner who can talk to me about anything and everything, a best friend and a kink partner.

Vapid, self centred boring cunts need not apply.

Kink-wise, I’m interested in finding a masochist and someone who enjoys the humiliation and degradation aspects of kink. Perhaps someone who wants to push their limits and boundaries or is open to exploring new ideas and kinks.

If you’re interested in discussing this further, feel free to send me a chat with a brief paragraph about yourself, including your location and what you’re seeking in a potential dominant partner.