A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but MY slut, MY cocksleeve, MY cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, you. You look to me as your mentor, trainer, your pillar of strength. You want me to help make decisions because I am more worldly and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach you and help you through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.

Being a Dom allows me to express myself freely. To say, act, and fuck in the way I choose, however I choose(within communicated limits that my partner has established of course). To be my most genuine and authentic self in this, the most intimate of spaces and dynamics. Every word and action is chosen carefully and with purpose. To make all our fantasies a reality in the most intimate way possible, that no one else can share with us. To be the most Me.

I may come across as a very soft Dom at first but that's because I believe being a Dom is earned, not something you force right off the bat. Some girls might enjoy being forced into submission from the get go but that's not obviously for me. I firmly believe in equality in every relationship and to me in a d/s, that means I have to earn being called Dom.

My rules and guidelines are all something to be discussed WITH you, not FORCED on you. You get to pick and choose how you want to submit to me out of what I like my little to do, not something I want you to do just so I can get my rocks off. Would also like to know if you can understand instructions so add "I do read" when you reach out to me. And DO NOT use the Reddit chat function, it does not work for me. I get enjoyment out of seeing my little enjoy submitting to me.

I would prefer someone close to NYC but anywhere is fine as long as you actually want to meet and are serious. I look forward to hearing from you princess.