A bit unusual for this subreddit, but I'm looking for someone I can talk to about sex/kink/BDSM without the expectation of a sexual encounter.
I'm currently in a long term relationship with a female sub. We have only recently started getting deeper into kink and BDSM--particularly the dd/lg and brat/tamer dynamics. Since I'm relatively new to the BDSM/kink space and I would love some more experienced members of this community to help me on my journey to becoming a better dom. I also used to be very religious and grew up in a pretty traditional household so there's definitely some self-loathing and self-esteem issues that complicate my relationship to being a dom. This has also made me not comfortable talking about sex in candidly and transparently, which is a huge issue if I'm to continue engaging with the BDSM community (it certainly doesn't help that most of my asian friends also don't talk about sex openly). It'd be awesome if there's someone with a similar background that could share their story, but honestly anyone with experience being a dom would be awesome to talk to.
About me: I'm a laid back, straight asian male in tech. I love snowboarding, playing/watching tennis, raving, and watching crime thrillers, dystopian films, dumb sitcoms, and sketch comedy.
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