Hi 🙂 I'm a UK-based sub looking for a monogamous LTR with a UK-based Dom who is 30-45.  I'm currently based in central Scotland but happy to consider long distance in the UK. 

A Bit About Me

I naturally thrive when I'm intellectually challenged and can take care of others. My professional life involves both these elements but also requires me to take the lead. I'm far more at home when I can receive orders from someone benevolent but what can you do...In my spare time, I enjoy reading, being creative, having cake and coffee with friends and family and lots more.  I also have an interest in psychology and am curious about people and their experiences.

Demisexuality 

One of the most important things to know if dating me is that I'm demisexual.  I can feel some aesthetic attraction when I meet a possible partner but need to develop a deeper emotional and mental connection over time before physical attraction kicks in. For me, a deeper connection and attraction develops based on shared perspectives and values, the way someone's mind works, the way they see the world, and the way that person treats others.  In my case, demisexuality is not a conscious choice.  Rather, it's just the way I'm wired (a bit like being kinky).  Please start your message with 'demi' so I know you read this part.

Submission and Kink

Being submissive is part of my personality.  In everyday life, I'm gentle, warm and loyal.  I enjoy pleasing, exceeding expectations and going the extra mile to show people that I value them.  My demisexuality means kink is something private/intimate although I'm happy to discuss kink compatibility in an objective way early on.  In general, though, I'd like to focus more on getting to know you as a person and developing a connection.

I gravitate towards a dynamic involving power exchange beyond the bedroom with kinks being used to reinforce the dynamic. Service submission, praise, restraints/bondage and physical degradation appeal but that's not exhaustive.

Thank you for reading this far.  It would be great if you could tell me a bit more about you and anything you feel we have in common (it needn't be hobby; it could also be in terms of outlook).  Look forward to hearing from you 🙂