About Me: I’m a 30-year-old D/switch who values control, structure, and the deeper connections that a D/s lifestyle can lead to. Outside of the dynamic, I’m into tech, gaming, and intellectual conversations. I enjoy dark humour, deep discussions, and someone who can appreciate both intensity and the quiet moments. I am Introspective, independent and drawn to meaningful connections over service level.
Physically I am slim but fit with wavy slightly messy hair, strong features with a sort of understated creative vibe. Usually opting for simple over flashy
What I'm Looking For: A sub in her mid-20s to mid-30s who desires a monogamous, long-term relationship built on trust, structure, deep commitment and adventure. Open to experienced or new to the lifestyle, but what matters most is your desires and willingness to grow within a D/s dynamic. I am looking for something lasting with the right person where we can grow together, meaning our compatibility must go beyond the bedroom.
You and me:
- Monogamous, loyal, and open to a long-term commitment.
- A deep psychological and emotional connection is the goal
- Heaps and heaps of open communication around our dynamic, in and outside of kink
- A mix of loving and sadistic obedience training regularly
- A long-term, evolving power dynamic built on mutual respect
I believe in loyalty, honesty, and a willingness to explore together are essential. Understanding safe play and your own limits should be always in the back of our minds.
Connection & Expectations: This is not a casual dynamic. I am looking for a serious, monogamous partner who is looking for the same. Chemistry, connection and trust are obviously important, and I prefer to take the time to get to know you before jumping into anything.
If this resonates send me a message introducing yourself and desires, and what you’re looking for in a dynamic.
Cheers
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